Together: Couples' Pleasure Built Around Both Partners
Together creates luxury couples' toys with mutual pleasure at the centre of the design. Founded in 2020 by Megan Swartz, the brand began with a question that many partnered products had failed to answer: why should one person have to wait while the other experiences the toy? Together responds with products designed so two people can participate in sensation at the same time while remaining physically close.
Women who love women are central to the way Together thinks about product design. Instead of modifying toys originally created around straight couples, the brand considers queer intimacy from the beginning, including changing roles, different bodies and shared stimulation. Its double-ended Couples' Vibrator, patented Echo Function and medical-grade silicone construction support an approach where connection and body safety matter alongside physical pleasure.
Product Range
Couples' Vibrators
Together develops toys specifically around partnered use, allowing both people to participate rather than treating one partner as the main recipient.
Double-Ended Designs
The double-ended format supports simultaneous shared use and reflects the brand's aim of keeping partners close throughout the experience.
Patented Echo Function
Together's patented Echo Function forms part of its approach to connected sensation, with the product developed around pleasure experienced by both partners.
Medical-Grade Silicone
Together places body safety at the centre of its products and uses medical-grade silicone intended for sensitive intimate contact.
Flexible Partner Roles
Products are not built around fixed wearer and receiver roles, giving partners freedom to switch according to their bodies and preferences.
Connection-Focused Play
Together considers physical closeness part of the experience, with designs intended to support face-to-face interaction and shared participation.
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Key Features and Design Approach
Together was created after Megan Swartz had spent twenty years working within the pleasure industry. She saw a gap in luxury partnered toys: products might be described as suitable for couples, but they did not necessarily allow two people to experience each other through the same design. Together was founded to address that difference.
The resulting double-ended Couples' Vibrator was shaped around simultaneous participation and closeness. Rather than positioning one person as an observer or asking partners to alternate, the concept centres both people within the experience. Face-to-face positioning also reflects the brand's belief that seeing and responding to a partner can be an important part of intimacy.
Together's patented Echo Function adds another element to this shared-use concept. Because specialised functions can operate differently between products, users should read the individual instructions before use and become familiar with the controls and intended positioning.
Popular Collections and Specialised Lines
The Together Couples' Vibrator represents the brand's core philosophy of mutual pleasure. Its double-ended format is designed around two active participants rather than adapting a primarily solo product for partnered use. This makes it relevant for couples specifically looking for simultaneous shared stimulation.
Other vibrator formats serve different purposes. Rabbit vibrators use their own internal and external stimulation format, while bullet vibrators provide a compact option for focused external stimulation. Together differs by making mutual partnered use the starting point of the design.
Designed for the Community, Not Adapted for It
Women who love women were not added to Together's audience after its products were created. Their experiences helped shape the original design thinking. The brand starts with the ways queer women may use pleasure products together instead of taking an existing straight-focused couples' toy and changing its marketing.
This approach removes assumptions about permanent roles. One partner does not always have to be the wearer while the other is always the receiver. Couples can switch, change positions and work out what feels right for their bodies rather than following one prescribed arrangement.
Together remains open beyond the community it was first designed around. The brand's position is that anyone interested in genuine mutual pleasure can consider its products, provided the design and intended use suit the people involved.
Choosing the Right Together Product
Choosing a shared toy means considering two people's preferences rather than only one. Talk about the type of stimulation each partner enjoys, whether simultaneous use appeals to both of you and whether you are comfortable with the positioning required by a double-ended product.
Product measurements matter as well. Check the dimensions and intended positioning of the individual Together toy before ordering. A design needs to work comfortably between both bodies, so measurements can provide more useful information than appearance alone.
Roles do not need to remain fixed. Together specifically supports switching and swapping, allowing couples to experiment with positioning instead of assuming that one person must always use the product in the same way.
Material and care should also form part of the decision. Together states that its products use medical-grade silicone. Follow the instructions supplied with the individual toy for cleaning, storage and lubricant compatibility, particularly because the product is intended to be shared.
Mistress Athena's Training Notes
A shared toy works best when both partners understand what they want from it. Discuss positioning, roles and boundaries before starting, then learn the product controls together. Begin with comfortable settings and allow time to work out how the double-ended design fits between your bodies. Neither partner needs to stay in one role. Switch, adjust and communicate as needed. If something becomes uncomfortable, change position or stop rather than pushing through it.
Clean shared toys carefully before and after use according to the manufacturer's instructions. Check the product for damage and confirm lubricant compatibility with its stated material. If a toy moves between different body areas or partners, clean it appropriately before changing use. Stop if either person experiences pain, numbness, bleeding or persistent irritation. Body safety and communication matter more than completing a particular position or maintaining a planned session.
Brand Authority and Product Comparison
Together was founded in 2020 by Megan Swartz after twenty years of experience within the pleasure industry. That background informed a brand created around a specific gap she identified in partnered products: the lack of a luxury dual-sided toy designed to let two people participate in sensation together.
The brand also takes a clear position on body safety. Together states that its products use medical-grade silicone and are rigorously tested, reflecting its view that intimate products should be suitable for contact with sensitive areas rather than treating material quality as a secondary consideration.
Its queer-informed design approach provides another point of difference. Many products can be used by couples regardless of how they were originally designed. Together instead starts with partnered use and the experiences of women who love women, while leaving roles and access open to a wider range of couples.
Together is also part of the COTR family. Within that wider family, its own identity remains focused on simultaneous pleasure, connection, body-safe materials and warm sexual education without rigid assumptions about how adults should experience intimacy.
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Read Adultsmart's guide to vibrators vs dildos for a closer comparison of these product categories and the factors worth considering before choosing between them.
Shop Together at BDSMAustralia
Explore Together at BDSMAustralia if you want couples' pleasure products created around both people rather than one partner at a time. The brand combines queer-informed design, a double-ended format, patented Echo Function and medical-grade silicone with a clear focus on closeness and mutual stimulation.
Choose Together according to what works for both partners. Compare individual product dimensions, functions and positioning, discuss preferences before use and give yourselves freedom to switch roles. For couples who value shared sensation and staying connected throughout play, Together offers a purpose-built approach to partnered pleasure.