Vibrating Bendable Harness Xl Purple By Strap-On-Me

Coordinating penetration and clitoral stimulation in partnered play often means compromise. Vibrating Bendable Harness XL Purple solves this by delivering vibration to both partners simultaneously through a strapless, bendable design that stays put and adapts to your body.

What it is

Vibrating Bendable Harness XL Purple is a strapless strap-on that uses your pelvic floor muscles to stay in place while delivering multi-motor vibration to both partners. Unlike traditional harnesses, it requires no straps or hands to hold it—the bendable silicone shaft flexes to your anatomy and angles for precise stimulation. Built from medical-grade silicone with an internal ABS core, it's durable, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean. The three vibration motors respond to button control or a wireless remote, giving you full command over intensity and sensation.

What sets this harness apart is its freedom of movement and dual-pleasure design. Because it's strapless, both partners experience direct skin contact and natural motion. The bendable shaft means you're not locked into one angle—you adjust it for comfort and targeting. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me for other innovative designs in this collection.

Key features

• Strapless retention: Pelvic floor muscles hold it in place, freeing your hands and allowing natural movement during play.
• Bendable shaft: Flex it to match your body's contours and angle it for clitoral or deeper penetrative stimulation.
• Multi-motor vibration: Three distinct modes with adjustable speeds deliver varied sensations to both partners at once.
• Remote control: Wireless operation at up to 5 metres lets your partner surprise you or build anticipation from a distance.
• Waterproof construction: Sealed design means shower play, bath play, or easy rinsing without damage to electronics.

Specifications

• Overall dimensions: 246 mm long, 43.5 mm shaft diameter, 94.5 mm base circumference
• Material: Medical-grade, non-porous silicone exterior; hypoallergenic ABS plastic core
• Power: USB rechargeable lithium-ion battery; 45 minutes continuous play per charge
• Vibration modes: Three distinct patterns with speed adjustment via integrated button or remote control
• Waterproof rating: Fully submersible; safe for water play and thorough rinsing
• Included: Vibrating harness, wireless remote, USB charging cable, protective storage bag, instruction manual

How to use a strap on sextoy

Insert the shorter end into your vagina and use your pelvic floor muscles to secure it in place. Once seated comfortably, activate vibration using the button control or hand the remote to your partner. Select your preferred mode and intensity. Bend the shaft gently to angle it toward your clitoris, your partner's penis, or the internal spot you want to target. Move naturally—the strapless design lets you thrust, rock, and shift without restriction.

For partnered penetration, guide your partner into the harness opening while you control the vibration. The bendable design adapts as you move together, so adjust it mid-scene if needed. Explore different positions to find angles that deliver maximum sensation. Products like Sensuva On offer complementary vibration options if you want layered stimulation. Always use water-based lubricant, start on lower vibration settings, and communicate openly about pressure and comfort.

Care and storage

After each use, wash Vibrating Bendable Harness XL Purple with warm water and a toy cleaner designed for silicone. Pat dry with a lint-free cloth and allow it to air-dry completely before storage. Store it in the included bag, away from direct sunlight and heat. Keep the remote and charging cable in a safe, dry place. Use only water-based lubricants; silicone lubes can degrade the material over time.

Learn more

Understanding how to balance penetration and clitoral pleasure in partnered play deepens connection and satisfaction for both of you. This harness removes the need to choose between sensations—you get both simultaneously. Read more about shared pleasure dynamics in our guide to Shared Strap On Pleasure.

Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

This harness is exceptional for psychological control in my scenes. Remote operation lets me tease and torment from a distance, building anticipation while my submissive waits for the next vibration. Watching them struggle against the sensation—never knowing when I'll activate it—breaks down resistance far more effectively than constant stimulation.

The bendable design allows me to target precise nerve clusters and adjust intensity without stopping the scene. Three vibration modes mean I can shift between gentle teasing and intense stimulation, keeping my submissive perpetually on edge. Strapless placement creates direct skin contact, heightening psychological connection and submission.

During extended training, I use this harness to enforce sustained arousal and denial. Combining vibration control with verbal commands and strategic touch creates layered sensory experiences that deepen obedience. My submissives report profound shifts in focus and submission when the physical pleasure is paired with psychological control. It's become indispensable in my practice.

See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.

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Why you'll reach for it

Snag Vibrating Bendable Harness XL Purple at BDSM Australia when you're ready to stop choosing between penetration and clitoral pleasure. The strapless design gives you freedom, the bendable shaft gives you control, and the dual vibration gives you shared sensation. This harness transforms how couples experience intimacy together—order yours today and discover why it belongs in your collection. Service That Keeps Customers Coming Back.