Venus Butterfly Silicone Remote By California Exotics

Clitoral stimulation during partnered sex often requires your hands, limiting your freedom and control. The Venus Butterfly Silicone Remote Venus Penis delivers remote-controlled vibration directly where you need it, leaving both partners free to focus on connection and sensation.

What it is

The Venus Butterfly Silicone Remote Venus Penis is a butterfly-shaped external stimulator designed for targeted clitoral pleasure. Its contoured silicone body hugs your anatomy for precision contact, while the wireless remote lets a partner—or yourself—control sensation from across the room. Built from medical-grade silicone, it's hypoallergenic, smooth, and safe for sensitive skin.

This device stands apart through its combination of discreet size and powerful versatility. Ten distinct vibration patterns range from gentle teasing to intense pulsing, letting you dial in exactly what feels right. The compact 3.5 x 3 inch profile fits under clothing for public wear if you choose, and the rechargeable battery means no disposable waste. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me for complementary partnered play options.

Key features

• Butterfly contour: Shaped to cup and hug external anatomy for concentrated stimulation without slipping.
• 10 vibration modes: From subtle pulses to rapid waves, each pattern adjustable for personal preference.
• Long-range remote: Wireless control allows hands-free operation and partner-controlled surprise stimulation.
• Rechargeable battery: USB charging means no batteries to buy; one full charge supports multiple sessions.
• Water-resistant build: Shower or bath play is possible; sealed seams protect internal components.

Specifications

• Dimensions: 3.5 inches long, 3 inches wide; weighs approximately 2.1 ounces for comfortable wear.
• Material: 100% medical-grade silicone, nickel-free, phthalate-free, non-porous surface.
• Power: Lithium-ion rechargeable battery; USB-C charging cable included; typical runtime 2–3 hours per charge.
• Water resistance: IPX7 rated; splash and shower safe, not designed for full submersion.
• Box contents: Stimulator, wireless remote control, USB charging cable, drawstring storage bag, instruction manual.

How to use a strap on sextoy

Start by charging the device fully using the included USB cable. Apply water-based lubricant to the butterfly's contact surface for smoother glide and enhanced sensation. Position it against your clitoris or desired external area, then press the power button on the remote to activate. Cycle through the ten vibration patterns using the remote buttons until you find your preferred rhythm and intensity.

For partnered play, hand the remote to your partner and let them explore the sensations at their own pace—the long-range control means they can stimulate you from anywhere in the room. Combine this with penetration from a strap-on dildo for fuller sensation; many people find the dual stimulation intensifies their experience. Explore Strap On Dildos to find options that complement this device. Experiment with different positions, clothing layers, and pattern combinations to discover what works best for your body.

Care and storage

Wash the stimulator with warm water and mild soap immediately after use, paying attention to seams and textured areas. Pat dry with a soft cloth and allow to air-dry completely before storage. Store in the included drawstring bag in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and extreme heat. Never use silicone-based lubricant, which can degrade the material; stick to water-based formulas only.

Learn more

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Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

The Venus Butterfly Silicone Remote Venus Penis has become one of my most effective control tools. Remote operation transforms simple stimulation into a psychological instrument—I activate unexpected pulses during protocol training, watching my submissive struggle to maintain composure and obedience. The butterfly's shape holds perfectly against responsive tissue, ensuring consistent contact regardless of position or movement.

My preferred technique involves extended wear scenarios where the submissive remains clothed in public settings. I control the remote unpredictably, forcing them to manage arousal and pleasure while maintaining social composure. This creates profound psychological submission; the device becomes an extension of my dominance rather than a pleasure tool. Denial and release become training mechanisms, conditioning responsiveness to my command.

Observation is critical. Each submissive's response to the ten patterns reveals their sensitivity thresholds and psychological triggers. I note which vibrations cause involuntary reactions, then use that knowledge to reinforce discipline. The remote's range allows me to activate the device from across a room, maintaining control while the submissive believes themselves unsupervised—a technique that deepens trust and vulnerability in power exchange dynamics.

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Why you'll reach for it

Shop the Venus Butterfly Silicone Remote Venus Penis at BDSM Australia for hands-free external stimulation that puts control in your hands—or your partner's. Its compact butterfly shape delivers concentrated pleasure while the wireless remote opens new possibilities for partnered play and sensation exploration. Rechargeable, body-safe, and discreet, this is the device you'll return to whenever you want precision, control, and surprise. From First Time Buyers to Experienced Players.