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Vaginal Spreader by XR Brands - Dental and Clinical
Vaginal Spreader by XR Brands - Dental and Clinical
Vaginal Spreader by XR Brands - Dental and Clinical

Vaginal Spreader by XR Brands

$44.99
$44.99

Metal vaginal spreader from XR Brands opens you wide for complete exposure and access during play

Key Features:

Precise genital exposure and control

High-quality elastic and nylon construction

36.5 inches total length with adjustable width

Enables intense sensory exploration

Professional BDSM accessory design

Vendor: XR Brands
SKU: BON-832-NOATTRIBUTES-SHOP-NONE-51392
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Dental and Clinical
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Vulnerability during intimate play can feel intimidating without the right tool. The Vaginal Spreader delivers complete genital exposure, letting you explore sensory experiences with confidence and control.

At a glance
  • Length: 36.5 inches, adjustable to fit most bodies
  • Material: Neoprene, elastic, nylon, and vinyl
  • Operation: Manual mechanical design, no batteries needed
  • Comfort: Cushioned straps for extended wear
  • Included: Storage bag and care instructions
🚚 Plain, discreet packaging🔒 Discreet billing↩︎ Hygiene-conscious returns policy

What it is

The Vaginal Spreader is a precision BDSM accessory engineered for controlled genital exposure during intimate play. Built from body-safe neoprene, elastic, nylon, and vinyl, it features adjustable straps that secure around the thighs while gently spreading the labia. The cushioned contact points prevent discomfort during extended sessions, and the 36.5-inch length accommodates most body types. Its black aesthetic combines function with visual appeal.

What sets this spreader apart is its focus on comfort alongside vulnerability. The adjustable design means you control the level of exposure and tension, making it suitable for beginners and experienced practitioners alike. See the full BDSM Australia range of Sex Toys for complementary tools that enhance sensory play.

Key features

  • Adjustable straps: Customize fit and tension to match your body and comfort level during play.
  • Complete exposure: Mechanical design holds labia open for visual and tactile stimulation without electrical components.
  • Cushioned contact points: Soft neoprene padding prevents skin irritation during intense or extended wear.
  • Body-safe materials: Hypoallergenic neoprene and elastic blend is easy to clean and durable for repeated use.
  • Portable design: Includes storage bag, making discreet travel and storage simple and convenient.

Specifications

  • Total length: 36.5 inches with 1-inch strap width for secure, comprehensive coverage.
  • Materials: Neoprene, elastic, nylon, and vinyl construction; body-safe and hypoallergenic.
  • Mechanism: Manual mechanical spreading—no batteries, electrical connections, or power source required.
  • Design features: Adjustable straps with cushioned contact zones; black finish for aesthetic appeal.
  • Box contents: One Vaginal Spreader with neoprene straps, storage bag, and printed care instructions.

How to use a dental and clinical

Start by adjusting the straps to a comfortable length around your thighs. Position the spreader carefully, wrapping straps securely but not restrictively. Gently increase tension to open the labia to your desired level of exposure. Check that all contact points feel comfortable before beginning your scene or activity. Take time to adjust positioning as needed during play.

For enhanced experiences, combine this spreader with other sensory tools or restraints that complement your scene. Use lubricant generously to ease any friction and increase comfort during extended wear. See the full BDSM Australia range of Lubes and Essentials to find products that work well alongside this device. Always communicate with your partner and establish clear signals before play begins.

Always use generous amounts of lubricant, start with lower tension, go slowly, and never share this item between partners without thorough cleaning. Safety first. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice; it does not account for your individual circumstances. Discontinue use immediately if you experience pain, numbness, discolouration, irritation or discomfort, and seek advice from a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition or if symptoms persist.

Care and storage

Wash the spreader thoroughly with mild antibacterial soap and warm water after each use. Rinse completely and air dry in a cool location away from direct sunlight. Inspect the straps and contact points regularly for signs of wear or damage. Store in the included bag to keep it clean and protected from dust or damage between uses.

Learn more

Understanding your body and communication with your partner are essential foundations for any intimate exploration. Expert guidance can help you navigate boundaries and enhance your experience safely. Read more insights from a certified sex coach in this conversation: Its Dr Stacy Friedman A Clinical Sexologist Certified Sex Coach Ask Me Anything.

Mistress Athena's training notes

This spreader creates immediate psychological shift in my submissives. The moment those straps tighten, they understand their vulnerability is complete. Every muscle becomes visible, every breath noticeable. My control deepens with their exposure—I can see exactly how they respond to each touch, each temperature change, each sound.

The neoprene straps hold perfectly without cutting off circulation, which matters during longer sessions. I've layered this with sensory deprivation, impact play, and temperature work. Watching a submissive tremble while completely open, unable to close or hide—that's where real power exchange happens. The spreader becomes a canvas for my dominance.

What impresses me most is how this tool democratizes control. Whether I'm working with someone experiencing bondage for the first time or a seasoned submissive, the spreader delivers that same psychological impact. The adjustability means I'm never limited by body type. That versatility makes it invaluable in my dungeon.

See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.

How it compares

Feature Vaginal Spreader Basic Thigh Spreader Bar Adjustable Bondage Frame
Setup time Under 2 minutes 3–5 minutes 10+ minutes
Portability Compact with storage bag Lightweight but bulky Requires significant space
Genital exposure control Precise and adjustable Limited customization Moderate flexibility
Comfort for extended wear Cushioned straps, excellent Basic padding, adequate Variable by frame design

Why you'll reach for it

Order the Vaginal Spreader when you're ready to deepen vulnerability and control in your intimate play. The adjustable design, cushioned straps, and compact portability make it practical for regular use at BDSM Australia. Whether you're beginning your exploration or refining your technique, this tool transforms how you experience exposure and sensation. Get yours today. Everything for Bondage Under One Roof.

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All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.

Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.

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1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.

Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.

2. Rural Areas (within Australia)

All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.

Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.

Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.

International Shipping

The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.

Please note in regards to all orders

– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.
– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.
– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.
– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm
– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order.  If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.

Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.

We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.

Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.

Due to health and safety regulations, sex-toy.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.

This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.

To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.

You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.

Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully. 

Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.
If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

Damages and issues

Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.

Exceptions / non-returnable items

We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.

Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.

Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.

Refunds

We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.

Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund too.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Vaginal Spreader by XR Brands?
The Vaginal Spreader is a premium BDSM accessory designed to hold labia open, creating complete genital exposure and enabling intense sensory experiences during sexual play.
Will this Genital Spreader provide maximum control during intimate encounters?
This spreader offers precise control by using adjustable neoprene straps that securely hold genital regions open, allowing unobstructed access and heightened sensory stimulation during sexual exploration.
Which techniques work best with the Vaginal Restraint Spreader?
Best techniques include gradual width adjustment, combining with additional bondage accessories, positioning on a flat surface, and ensuring comfortable tension while maintaining complete genital exposure.
Can this Neoprene Genital Spreader enhance sensory experiences?
This spreader dramatically increases sensory sensitivity by creating visual and physical vulnerability, exposing sensitive regions for targeted stimulation and enabling deeper exploration of sexual boundaries.
When should the BDSM Vaginal Spreader be integrated into sexual play?
Integrate during advanced BDSM scenes requiring complete genital access, when seeking heightened vulnerability, or when exploring controlled exposure techniques with consenting participants.

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