Remote controlled strapless strap-on with dual-ended silicone construction for hands-free play
Key Features:
Wireless remote control for dynamic domination
Premium medical-grade silicone construction
Dual internal and external stimulation design
No traditional harness required
Advanced BDSM power exchange capabilities
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Controlling pleasure from a distance transforms power exchange—but traditional strap-ons limit your options. This remote-controlled strapless design delivers dual stimulation without a harness, letting you command sensation from across the room.
Urge Strapless Strap On With Remote is a hands-free penetrative toy engineered for power exchange play. Unlike traditional harness-based strap-ons, this device sits securely without straps, delivering simultaneous internal and external stimulation. Medical-grade silicone construction ensures body safety and durability. Multiple vibration modes and wireless remote functionality put control entirely in your hands—or at a distance, depending on your scene.
Its ergonomic design accommodates intermediate to advanced users seeking intense BDSM scenarios. The strapless configuration allows freedom of movement and positioning, making it ideal for complex scenes and extended wear. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me products for additional harness and strap-on options.
Clean thoroughly with antibacterial toy cleaner before and after use. Apply generous water-based lubricant to both the toy and insertion site. Slowly insert the internal portion, positioning it comfortably. Activate the remote and select your desired vibration pattern. Adjust intensity using remote buttons for precise control throughout your scene.
Explore positioning variations to discover what works best for your body and your partner's. Combine this toy with sensory play like blindfolds or verbal commands to deepen psychological impact. The strapless design allows seamless integration into complex scenes. Discover additional penetrative options by exploring the full Strap On Dildos collection for varied play scenarios.
Wash with mild soap and warm water immediately after use, or use dedicated toy cleaner for thorough antibacterial cleaning. Dry completely with a lint-free cloth before storage. Store in the included pouch away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures. Recharge the battery after every 2–3 uses to maintain optimal performance and battery longevity.
Understanding power dynamics and communication enriches every scene. Remote-controlled toys add psychological layers to BDSM practice by separating the giver and receiver of stimulation. This distance creates heightened anticipation and vulnerability. For deeper insights into intimate dynamics and scene planning, read Sex On The First Date.
This toy has become essential in my BDSM practice. The wireless remote allows me to control my submissive's experience from across the room, heightening their sense of vulnerability and surrender. Watching them anticipate the next vibration pulse—never knowing when it arrives—creates exquisite psychological tension during extended training sessions.
My submissives respond powerfully to the precision of the vibrations. By linking specific patterns with behavioral expectations, I condition them to associate pleasure directly with obedience. The strapless design permits incredible mobility during scenes, enabling complex bondage configurations without harness interference.
Combining remote control with verbal commands creates profound conditioning. My submissives learn that complete surrender brings reward, transforming their understanding of control and submission. The psychological impact extends well beyond the scene itself, deepening their trust and responsiveness during all our interactions.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Urge Strapless Strap On With Remote | Traditional Harness Strap-On | Wearable Remote Vibrator |
|---|---|---|---|
| Hands-free use | Yes, fully strapless design | Requires harness attachment | Yes, but limited penetration |
| Remote control range | 30 feet wireless | None, manual only | 10–20 feet typically |
| Dual stimulation | Internal and external simultaneous | Penetration only | External only |
| Positioning freedom | Unrestricted movement | Limited by harness placement | Full mobility |
| Best for | Advanced BDSM power exchange | Partnered penetration play | Sensory control scenarios |
Get precision control over pleasure and pain during your most intense scenes. This remote-controlled strapless design at BDSM Australia eliminates harness restrictions while delivering dual stimulation exactly when you command it. Perfect for power exchange practitioners seeking psychological and physical domination. Order today and transform how you experience control. From First Time Buyers to Experienced Players.
BDSM Australia ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.
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1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)
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All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping.
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