Pink silicone flexible toy from California Exotics with bendable shaft for customized angles
Key Features:
Premium medical-grade silicone construction
7-inch length with precise metal control ring
Multiple stimulation settings for varied experiences
Ergonomic design for comfortable use
Intense sensory pleasure potential
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Finding a prostate massager that offers both control and comfort can be challenging. The CalExotics Up! Flex It Up Prostate Massager Pink combines a flexible silicone body with a metal control ring, giving you precise manipulation and powerful vibration in one intuitive design.
The CalExotics Up! Flex It Up Prostate Massager Pink is a medical-grade silicone vibrator engineered for targeted prostate and anal stimulation. Its 7-inch length and 1.5-inch diameter create a comfortable insertion profile, while the flexible silicone body conforms to your anatomy. A built-in metal ring sits at the base, allowing you to adjust angle and depth with precision during use.
What sets this massager apart is the combination of its control ring and multiple vibration modes. The metal accent gives you genuine grip and manipulation capability—you're not just holding a toy, you're directing it. See the full BDSM Australia range of Anal Dildos to compare other options.
Start by fully charging the device using the supplied USB cable. Apply water-based lubricant generously to both the massager and your anus to ensure comfort during insertion. Press the power button to activate vibration; cycle through modes to find your preferred intensity. Slowly insert the device and use the metal control ring to adjust angle and depth as needed.
Once inserted, experiment with different vibration patterns to discover what feels best. The control ring lets you maintain consistent pressure or shift the angle for targeted prostate stimulation. You can also use the massager externally for perineal play. Explore Inflatable Dildos if you want to try different sensations alongside this device. Always go slowly, listen to your body, and stop if discomfort occurs.
Wash the massager with warm water and mild soap immediately after use, then dry completely with a soft cloth. Store it in the included storage bag away from direct sunlight and extreme heat. Use only water-based lubricants to preserve the silicone's integrity. Check the USB charging port periodically to ensure it remains clean and dry.
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The metal ring on this device gives me exceptional control during scenes. I can hold, angle, and manipulate it with surgical precision while my submissive surrenders to the vibration patterns. The multiple modes let me create unpredictable rhythms—switching between intensities keeps them guessing and deepens their focus on my commands.
What I appreciate most is how the silicone's flexibility allows me to target specific sensations while the ring anchors my control. During extended training sessions, the whisper-quiet motor means I can work without distraction, maintaining my full attention on my submissive's responses and boundaries.
This massager works beautifully in denial and edging scenarios. I use it to build arousal, then deny release through mode switching and withdrawal—a powerful tool for establishing obedience. The rechargeable battery means it performs reliably throughout longer scenes without power loss.
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| Feature | CalExotics Up! Flex It Up Prostate Massager Pink | Standard silicone prostate massager | Vibrating prostate toy without control ring |
|---|---|---|---|
| Control ring | Yes—metal ring for precise manipulation | No—fixed base only | No—smooth base without grip feature |
| Vibration modes | Multiple patterns and intensities | Single vibration setting | Multiple modes but harder to angle |
| Material | Medical-grade silicone with metal accent | Medical-grade silicone only | Medical-grade silicone only |
| Best for | Users who want control and customisation | Beginners seeking simplicity | Users prioritising vibration over manipulation |
Explore the CalExotics Up! Flex It Up Prostate Massager Pink when you want precision, power, and control in one device. The metal control ring sets it apart—it's not just a vibrator, it's a tool for directed sensation. Order at BDSM Australia and discover how the combination of flexible silicone, targeted vibration, and your own grip transforms prostate play into something genuinely commanding and satisfying. Service That Keeps Customers Coming Back.
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