Tease Me & Tame Me Ball Gag & Wrist Restraint System

Controlling both speech and movement at once creates intense psychological tension during power exchange. This integrated ball gag and wrist restraint system lets you explore that dynamic with precision, giving you the tools to orchestrate complex scenes safely.

What it is

This comprehensive restraint system combines a ball gag and adjustable wrist cuffs into one coordinated kit for power exchange play. The 1.75-inch silicone ball sits securely in the mouth, held by an adjustable strap that ranges from 12 to 26 inches around the head. Two matching wrist cuffs feature Velcro closures and adjustable sizing, letting you secure your partner to beds, frames, or suspension points. All components are constructed from body-safe PVC, nylon, and faux leather with rust-resistant metal hardware.

What sets this system apart is its integrated design—the gag and cuffs work as a unified control mechanism rather than separate pieces. This coordination lets you explore multiple restraint configurations and power dynamics in a single scene. See the full BDSM Australia range of Restraints to compare other options for your practice.

Key features

• Adjustable ball gag: 1.75-inch diameter with a strap that fits heads from 12 to 26 inches, ensuring comfort and security across body types.
• Dual wrist restraints: Two 2-inch-wide cuffs with Velcro closures and adjustable sizing (6–14 inches) for flexible positioning and control.
• Durable construction: Body-safe PVC, nylon, and faux leather with rust-resistant metal hardware withstand regular use and last through many scenes.
• Multiple configurations: Connect cuffs to beds, spreader bars, or overhead points to create varied restraint scenarios and power exchange dynamics.
• No-battery design: Manual mechanical restraint system means it's always ready—no charging, no electronics to fail mid-scene.

Specifications

• Ball gag dimensions: 1.75-inch diameter ball; adjustable strap ranges 12–26 inches around the head for secure positioning.
• Wrist cuff dimensions: Each cuff measures 2 inches wide; circumference adjusts from 6 to 14 inches per wrist.
• Materials: Body-safe PVC ball and gag body, nylon straps, faux leather cuff backing, rust-resistant metal buckles and hardware.
• Fastening: Velcro closures on wrist cuffs; adjustable strap on gag with secure buckle attachment.
• Box contents: One ball gag with adjustable strap, two wrist cuffs, connecting hardware, and black storage bag for discreet storage.
• Waterproofing: Materials are splash-resistant but not fully submersible; hand-wash after use.

How to use a restraints

Start by adjusting the gag strap to fit comfortably around your partner's head before the ball enters the mouth. Position the ball inside the mouth and secure the strap snugly behind the head—tight enough that it won't slip, loose enough to allow safe breathing and drooling. Check that your partner can make a clear signal (usually a dropped hand or object) to stop the scene immediately if needed. Establish this signal before you begin.

Fit each wrist cuff around the wrists, adjusting the Velcro to sit snugly without cutting off circulation. You can attach the cuffs to a bed frame, spreader bar, or overhead suspension point using the metal hardware. The integrated design of this system means controlling both speech and movement creates intense psychological tension. Explore the full selection of Bondage Cuffs to add variety to your restraint techniques.

Care and storage

Wash all components with mild soap and warm water immediately after each use, paying special attention to the ball gag. Dry thoroughly with a soft cloth before storing. Keep the system in the provided storage bag in a cool, dark place away from direct sunlight and heat, which can degrade the PVC and nylon over time. Inspect metal hardware regularly for rust or damage, and replace any worn Velcro strips to maintain secure closures.

Learn more

Understanding restraint technique deepens both safety and pleasure in power exchange scenes. Read more about foundational practices in Restraints And Ties. This system rewards study and communication—the more you know about your partner's limits and responses, the more control you can exercise with confidence.

Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

I've used this system extensively in my training protocols. The integrated design allows me to control my submissives with precision—simultaneous control of speech and movement creates the psychological surrender I'm after. Watching them process the dual restraint, unable to speak or move freely, teaches obedience faster than either tool alone.

The ball gag silences them perfectly, forcing communication through body language and breathing. Every tremor, every involuntary response tells me exactly how they're processing the scene. My submissives learn quickly that resistance is futile when I'm wielding this system. The metal hardware provides a cold, unyielding sensation that reinforces my dominance.

I strategically adjust the cuff tension to create increasing psychological pressure. Some require gentle introduction; others crave immediate, overwhelming control. The adjustable components mean I can tailor intensity to each submissive's tolerance level. By controlling both restraint and speech, I create an immersive experience of total submission that breaks down barriers far more effectively than restraint alone.

See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.

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Why you'll reach for it

Add this system to your practice when you're ready to orchestrate scenes that demand simultaneous control of speech and movement. The integrated design eliminates fumbling between separate tools—everything coordinates seamlessly at BDSM Australia. You'll reach for it because it delivers the psychological intensity that experienced power exchange demands, and its adjustable components fit most body types. Order now and explore the depth of control this comprehensive kit makes possible. Safe Shopping from an Established Australian Business.