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They/Them Flexible Realistic Dildo By Tantus - Realistic Dildos
They/Them Flexible Realistic Dildo By Tantus - Realistic Dildos
They/Them Flexible Realistic Dildo By Tantus - Realistic Dildos
They/Them Flexible Realistic Dildo By Tantus - Realistic Dildos

They/Them Flexible Realistic Dildo By Tantus

$99.99
$99.99

Tantus silicone dildo with 5.5 inches total length and 1.6 inch diameter for realistic penetration

Key Features:

Ultra-soft silicone for comfortable penetration

5.5-inch total length with 5 insertable inches

Harness-compatible design

Targets G-spot and P-spot stimulation

Inclusive, gender-neutral pleasure tool

Vendor: Tantus
SKU: NEW-1313-COPPER
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Realistic Dildos
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Colour: Copper
Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo is a premium silicone dildo featuring 5.5 inches total length with 5 insertable inches. Crafted from Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone with a 1.6-inch diameter, this harness-compatible toy delivers intense, comfortable penetration for all genders and preferences.

About Tantus They or Them

The Tantus They or Them represents a revolutionary approach to sex toys, designed for maximum pleasure and inclusivity. Its carefully engineered shape provides targeted stimulation for G-spot and P-spot exploration. The ultra-soft silicone construction ensures a comfortable yet satisfying experience, making it ideal for both beginners and experienced users. Unlike traditional dildos, this model prioritizes body-safe materials and versatile design, allowing for multiple types of play. Compatible with most harness systems, it offers exceptional flexibility in sexual exploration.

Tantus They or Them Features

  1. Dimensions: Total length 5.5 inches, with 5 inches insertable, providing precise depth control for comfortable and intense penetration.
  2. Material: 100% Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone, offering a perfect balance between firmness for stimulation and softness for comfort.
  3. Function/Power: Harness-compatible design allows for versatile use in solo or partnered play, with optimal G-spot and P-spot targeting.
  4. Unique Design: Shorter length prevents cervical contact while maintaining satisfying girth for intense sensory experiences.

Product Specifications

  • Complete Measurements: 5.5 inches total length, 5 inches insertable, 1.6-inch diameter for full, comfortable penetration.
  • Material Composition: Medical-grade, non-porous silicone, free from harmful chemicals, completely body-safe.
  • Power Source: No battery required - manual operation for direct, responsive stimulation.
  • Special Features: Available in multiple colors including Azure, Silver, Bubble Gum, Copper, and Malachite.
  • Package Contents: Dildo, storage bag, care instructions for long-lasting performance.

Using Tantus They or Them

Basic Operation

Apply water-based lubricant generously before insertion. Slowly introduce the dildo, using gentle pressure. For harness play, secure firmly in the base. Experiment with different angles and depths to find most pleasurable stimulation. Clean thoroughly with warm water and mild soap before and after each use.

Advanced Techniques

Combine with temperature play using wax for heightened sensations. Experiment with different positions - standing, seated, or reclining. Try external stimulation simultaneously. Use in conjunction with other toys for blended orgasms. Explore different pressures and rhythms to discover maximum pleasure.

Care and Maintenance

Wash with antibacterial toy cleaner or mild soap. Boil for complete sterilization. Air dry completely. Store in provided bag away from direct sunlight. Use water-based lubricants to maintain silicone integrity.

Mistress Athena's Training Notes

I've used the Tantus They or Them extensively in my training sessions. Its perfect size allows me to control my submissives' experience precisely. I love watching their reactions as I slowly introduce the dildo, observing every micro-expression of pleasure and submission. The soft silicone creates an incredible sensation that breaks down psychological barriers. I've found it particularly effective with newer submissives who require gentle but firm training.

I strategically employ this toy to push boundaries and test limits. Its versatility allows me to create intense psychological experiences. I'll often start with external teasing, gradually increasing pressure and depth. The harness compatibility means I can dominate without physical contact, creating a powerful mental connection. I've witnessed incredible transformations - submissives completely surrendering control, their bodies and minds becoming pure instruments of my pleasure. The They or Them isn't just a toy; it's a tool of total psychological conquest.

Product Comparison

What You Need to Know Tantus They or Them Why This Matters
How Big Is It? 5.5 inches total, 5 inches insertable Perfect for comfortable, targeted stimulation
What's It Made Of? Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone Body-safe, easy to clean, hygienic material
How Does It Work? Manual operation, harness-compatible Versatile for multiple play styles
What Makes It Special? Unique soft silicone, multiple colors Personalized pleasure experience
Who's It Best For? All experience levels, all genders Inclusive design for diverse preferences

Shop Tantus They or Them at BDSMAUSTRALIA

Get the ultimate pleasure companion that adapts to your desires. Experience unparalleled comfort and intense stimulation with the Tantus They or Them. Discover your perfect match and transform your intimate moments today!

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo?
A premium silicone dildo designed for inclusive pleasure, featuring 5.5 inches total length, 5 insertable inches, and a 1.6-inch diameter. Crafted from Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone for comfortable, body-safe penetration across all gender expressions.
How does the Tantus They or Them Dildo perform during insertion?
The flexible silicone design allows smooth, comfortable penetration with targeted G-spot and P-spot stimulation. Its soft material adapts to body contours, providing intense sensations while minimizing discomfort during sexual exploration.
Can this dildo be used with a harness system?
Absolutely. The Tantus They or Them is fully harness-compatible, making it ideal for strap-on play. Its sturdy base and flexible shaft ensure secure attachment and comfortable movement during penetrative activities.
Where can the Tantus They or Them Dildo provide maximum stimulation?
Excellent for G-spot and P-spot targeting, this dildo delivers precise internal stimulation. Its carefully engineered shape allows deep, comfortable penetration, making it perfect for exploring sensitive internal erogenous zones.
Will the Tantus They or Them work in BDSM play?
Ideal for power exchange scenarios, this dildo's flexible design allows controlled penetration during domination scenes. Its body-safe silicone and harness compatibility make it a robust tool for intense BDSM experiences.

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