Complete strap-on starter kit with adjustable harness, two silicone toys, O-rings and bullet vibrator
Key Features:
Professional-grade strap-on kit for sexual exploration
Machine-washable, adjustable harness design
Multiple silicone dildo sizes for progressive play
Includes waterproof bullet vibrator for added stimulation
Accommodates various body types and experience levels
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Strap-on play can feel intimidating without the right tools and guidance. The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit removes that uncertainty by bundling everything you need—two graduated dildos, an adjustable harness, and a vibrator—into one thoughtfully designed system for exploring penetrative play safely.
The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit is a complete strap-on system designed to introduce you to harness-based penetrative play. It includes two graduated silicone dildos—a 4.25-inch smaller option and a 5.5-inch medium option—so you can progress at your own pace. An adjustable, machine-washable harness accommodates various body types, while interchangeable O-rings let you swap between toy sizes. The removable bullet vibrator adds optional stimulation and clips into the harness for hands-free use.
What sets this kit apart is its thoughtful progression design and premium construction. Each component is made from body-safe, hypoallergenic silicone that's easy to clean and durable. The harness fits securely without pinching, and the included O-rings ensure a snug fit for both dildos. See the full BDSM Australia range of Realistic Dildos to explore other options once you've mastered the basics.
Start by adjusting the harness around your hips until it sits snugly without discomfort. Choose the smaller dildo if you're new to strap-on play, then apply generous water-based lubricant to both the toy and the receiving partner. Secure the dildo through the O-ring, ensuring it's firmly attached. Insert slowly and communicate throughout—check in regularly and go at whatever pace feels right.
Once you're comfortable with the smaller size, you can graduate to the medium dildo using the same process. The removable vibrator clips into the harness for added sensation if desired. Experiment with different positions—doggy style, missionary, or standing—to find what works best for both partners. Browse Realistic Cock Sleeves if you want to explore additional options for partnered play once you've mastered the kit basics.
Wash all silicone components with mild soap and warm water immediately after use. For deeper cleaning, place items on the top rack of your dishwasher or boil them for five minutes to sterilize. Air dry completely before storage. Keep the harness and dildos in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and heat. Store the bullet vibrator separately with the battery removed if you won't be using it for an extended period.
Understanding the basics of strap-on play helps you get the most from your kit. Explore techniques, safety practices, and communication strategies that make penetrative play enjoyable for everyone involved. Read more about realistic dildo selection and use in our guide on Evolved Realistic Dildo.
This kit's graduated sizing is invaluable for controlled submission training. I use the smaller dildo first to establish baseline tolerance, then systematically introduce the medium size to stretch my submissive's boundaries. Watching them accommodate the increase—their breathing shift, their psychological surrender—reveals how much their conditioning has progressed. Control over progression pace keeps them focused entirely on my direction.
Combining the harness with sensory deprivation amplifies the power exchange dramatically. Blindfolded and restrained, my submissive cannot anticipate which dildo I'll use or when the vibrator will activate. This uncertainty deepens their submission. The harness's adjustability lets me maintain precise positioning, ensuring maximum psychological intensity throughout the scene.
The removable vibrator serves as an excellent tool for reward and punishment within my training protocols. I withhold it when obedience wavers and grant it when my submissive demonstrates proper submission. This creates powerful conditioning—they begin associating compliance with pleasure. The kit's versatility enables me to design intricate, progressive training sequences that systematically reshape responses and deepen control.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit | Comparable Alternative A | Comparable Alternative B |
|---|---|---|---|
| Dildo sizes included | Two (4.25" and 5.5") | One fixed size | Three sizes (requires separate purchase) |
| Harness adjustability | Adjustable, up to 60" hips | One-size-fits-most | Fully customisable with straps |
| Vibration included | Yes, removable bullet | No vibration | Yes, internal motor |
| Material | Ultra-premium silicone | Standard silicone | Medical-grade silicone |
| Cleaning | Machine-washable harness, boilable | Hand-wash only | Dishwasher-safe components |
Snag the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit at BDSM Australia and step into strap-on exploration with confidence. Two dildos, an adjustable harness, and a vibrator give you everything needed to explore safely and progress at your own pace. This is the kit that transforms curiosity into skill and hesitation into mastery. Everything for Bondage Under One Roof.
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