Strapless silicone dildo with remote control vibration for hands-free wear and wearable stimulation during activity.
Key Features:
Hands-free penetration without harnesses or straps required
Curved shaft targets G-spot or prostate contact specifically
Remote-controlled vibration with multiple customizable patterns
Ideal for solo play, couples sex, and BDSM bondage scenes
Water-based lubricant compatible design for comfort
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Hands-free penetration during solo play or partnered moments often requires harnesses that feel restrictive or take time to adjust. The Strapless Dildo with Remote Controller by Passion Play solves this with an internal probe that anchors itself, letting you enjoy vibration and penetration freely while your partner controls the action from metres away.
The Strapless Dildo with Remote Controller by Passion Play is a hands-free vibrating toy designed with an internal probe that holds itself in place during play. Unlike traditional strap-on dildos, this one needs no harness—the ergonomic anchor probe sits inside the vagina to provide support and added stimulation, while the external shaft delivers penetration. Its purple silicone-and-ABS body is smooth, durable, and made for comfort during extended wear.
What sets it apart is the wireless remote control, which operates from up to 8 metres away, making it ideal for couples who want one partner to direct sensation while the other receives it. You get 21 distinct vibration patterns to choose from, so there's range between gentle teasing and stronger sensation. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap On Dildos.
Begin by cleaning the toy with warm water and mild soap or a designated toy cleaner. Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the internal probe and external shaft. Slowly insert the probe into the vagina first—it should sit comfortably and stay anchored. Once secure, guide the external shaft into position for penetration.
Your partner can now use the wireless remote to activate vibration patterns. Start with lower modes and increase intensity gradually as you become accustomed to the sensation. The remote operates from up to 8 metres away, so your partner can move around during play. For best results, pair this toy with a quality water-based lubricant from our Lubes and Essentials range.
After each use, wash the toy with warm water and mild soap or a toy-specific cleaner, then pat dry with a soft cloth. Store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and extreme heat. Keep the remote control separate and ensure the USB port remains clean and dry. Never submerge the remote in water.
Understanding how different forms of stimulation work together can help you get the most from your toy. Hands-free play opens new possibilities for power exchange and partner connection during intimate moments. Read our Guide On Nipple Stimulation for additional ideas on blending sensations.
This toy transforms the dynamic between partners in ways traditional strap-ons cannot. The anchor probe means my submissive remains in position without needing to hold anything, freeing her mind to focus entirely on sensation and surrender. Control shifts completely to me via the remote—I decide when stimulation intensifies, when it stops, when it teases. That power exchange is the real gift here.
Vibration alone isn't what makes this tool compelling in a scene. It's the psychological edge: she cannot see what I'm doing with the remote, cannot predict when sensation will change. I've used it to build anticipation, deny release, and test her ability to stay grounded under unpredictable stimulus. The 21 patterns give genuine variety—subtle shifts that keep her nervous system engaged.
Positioning matters. The internal probe sits deeper than the external shaft, so penetration depth feels different from standard toys. Some submissives prefer this; others find the dual sensation overwhelming at first. Start conservatively and observe her body's response. Water-based lubricant is non-negotiable—silicone needs it to glide properly and to keep the anchor probe comfortable during longer scenes.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Strapless Dildo with Remote Controller | Traditional Strap-On Dildo | Wearable Vibrating Couples' Toy |
|---|---|---|---|
| Hands-free design | Yes—internal anchor probe keeps it in place | Requires harness and manual support | Yes, but lighter stimulation |
| Remote control | 8-metre wireless range, 21 patterns | Not applicable | Limited or app-based control |
| Penetration depth | 15 cm external shaft, dual stimulation | Varies by harness and dildo choice | Typically 5–8 cm, light penetration |
| Setup time | 2–3 minutes, no harness needed | 5–10 minutes, harness fitting required | 1–2 minutes, worn externally |
| Battery life | 50 minutes per charge | Not applicable | 30–45 minutes per charge |
Find yourself drawn to this toy whenever you want hands-free pleasure without the hassle of harnesses or manual control. The wireless remote and internal anchor system let you and your partner explore new power dynamics with genuine ease. Available at BDSM Australia, the Strapless Dildo with Remote Controller combines premium silicone craftsmanship, 21 vibration modes, and a design that truly prioritises comfort and security. Order yours today and experience a new freedom in partnered play. Helping Australians Find the Right BDSM Gear.
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