7.5 inch silicone dildo with adjustable harness from XR Brands for strap-on play and control
Key Features:
Dual-density silicone for realistic sensations
Adjustable harness fits multiple body types
Suction cup base enables hands-free positioning
Compatible with dungeon furniture attachments
Multiple attachment points for sexual exploration
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Couples often struggle to find a strap-on that balances comfort, control, and realistic sensation. Strap-U Charmed - Comfort, Confidence, and Satisfaction in One Set delivers all three: a dual-density silicone dildo paired with an adjustable harness that fits waist sizes 18–50 inches, built for versatile play and genuine satisfaction.
Strap-U Charmed - Comfort, Confidence, and Satisfaction in One Set is a complete strap-on system designed for couples seeking realistic, comfortable penetrative play. The dildo features dual-density silicone: a firm inner core wrapped in a soft outer layer for authentic sensation and durability. Its 7.5-inch length and 1.5-inch diameter suit a wide range of preferences and body types. The harness uses adjustable nylon and PU leather straps to secure the dildo firmly while distributing weight evenly across the wearer's body.
What sets this kit apart is its adaptability. The suction cup base enables hands-free scenarios against walls or furniture, expanding your play options beyond traditional harness use. Two included silicone rings increase compatibility with different anatomies and play styles. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me products to explore other harness and dildo combinations.
Start by adjusting the harness to fit your waist comfortably. Ensure all straps sit snugly but not too tightly around your waist and thighs. Apply generous water-based lubricant to the dildo for smooth, easy insertion. Position the harness carefully, aligning the dildo with your partner's preferred angle and depth. Secure all straps firmly once positioned, checking that nothing shifts during movement.
During play, communicate constantly with your partner about comfort and pace. Begin slowly, allowing time for adjustment before increasing depth or speed. The suction cup base offers alternative positioning options—try attaching it to smooth surfaces for hands-free scenarios or mounting it on compatible furniture. Explore different angles and rhythms to discover what works best for both of you. Discover additional strap-on options and techniques in the Pornhub Sextoys collection, which features diverse harness styles and complementary toys.
Clean the silicone dildo with warm water and mild soap immediately after use. Rinse thoroughly and air dry completely before storage. Wipe the harness straps with a damp cloth and allow to dry fully. Store both components in the provided cloth bag away from direct sunlight and extreme heat. Use only water-based lubricants to preserve the silicone's integrity and lifespan.
Understanding harness fit and dildo selection transforms your strap-on experience. Read detailed guides on setup, positioning, and comfort in our expert resources. Discover real unboxing insights and technique reviews to maximise your set's potential. Check out Unboxing The Strap On Me 3 Motor Strapless Strap On Now for in-depth product insights and user perspectives.
This harness and dildo combination has become indispensable in my practice. The dual-density silicone mimics realistic sensation, deepening my submissive's psychological surrender. Adjusting the harness to fit each submissive creates a ritual of control—they feel my precision, my dominance, before I've even begun. The firm core allows me to control depth and pace with absolute authority.
My submissives respond intensely to the combination of realistic sensation and my complete control over their experience. The suction cup base offers unexpected tactical advantages—restraining them while the dildo is mounted changes the power dynamic entirely. Sometimes I use it for training obedience; other times, for sensory denial or extended scenes. Each submissive's threshold differs, but all eventually surrender to the experience.
What I observe most is the psychological shift. The harness signals dominance; the dildo enforces it. Breathing deepens, resistance softens, boundaries dissolve. My submissives learn that their pleasure exists only at my discretion. This tool teaches submission more effectively than many others in my collection because it combines realistic sensation with undeniable power exchange. Control is the true pleasure here.
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| Feature | Strap-U Charmed - Comfort, Confidence, and Satisfaction in One Set | Standard Silicone Strap-On | Strapless Strap-On |
|---|---|---|---|
| Dildo Length | 7.5 inches | 6–8 inches (varies) | 5–7 inches |
| Harness Type | Adjustable nylon and PU leather, 18–50 inches | Fixed-size harness, limited adjustment | No harness; internal positioning only |
| Hands-Free Option | Yes, suction cup base included | No suction cup | Inherently hands-free |
| Versatility | Multiple play styles, positions, and accessories | Traditional harness play only | Limited to internal positioning |
| Best For | Couples seeking comfort, control, and variety | Straightforward penetrative play | Discreet, hands-free exploration |
Grab Strap-U Charmed - Comfort, Confidence, and Satisfaction in One Set when you're ready to move beyond basic exploration into confident, versatile play. The dual-density silicone, adjustable harness, and suction cup base give you control, comfort, and options at BDSM Australia. Whether you're discovering strap-on play together or deepening an established dynamic, this kit delivers reliable, satisfying performance. Order yours today and transform your intimate connection. Australia's BDSM Specialists for Over 15 Years.
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