Lace And Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva Xs By Strap-On-Me

Finding a strap-on harness that fits smaller frames securely while delivering both comfort and control can be challenging. The Strap On Me Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS combines elegant design with a precise XS fit, giving you the confidence and stability you need.

What it is

The Strap On Me Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS is a body-safe harness engineered for XS waist sizes. Its dual-material construction—a flexible nylon and elastane blend with decorative lace detailing—delivers both aesthetic refinement and functional performance. Adjustable straps around the waist and thighs ensure a secure, customizable fit that stays in place during use. The universal O-ring attachment system works with a wide range of dildos, making it adaptable to your preferences.

What sets this harness apart is its combination of visual sophistication and practical engineering. The lace overlay adds psychological depth to power-exchange dynamics while the stretchy microfiber base provides comfort during extended wear. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me harnesses and accessories to explore other sizes and styles.

Key features

• Precision XS fit: Designed for 64–70 cm waists, with adjustable straps that mold to your body for maximum security and comfort during intense sessions.
• Dual-material construction: Premium nylon and elastane blend offers flexibility, durability, and body-safe performance without compromising on sensation or control.
• Lace aesthetic: The decorative overlay creates visual impact and psychological intensity, adding refinement to power-exchange scenarios.
• Universal dildo compatibility: Central O-ring attachment system works with most dildos, giving you freedom to choose the size and shape that suits your needs.
• Easy maintenance: Machine washable and quick-drying, with included storage bag to keep the harness clean and protected between uses.

Specifications

• Size range: XS waist circumference 64–70 cm (approximately 25–27 inches) with flexible stretch capability for optimal fit.
• Main material: 75% nylon, 25% elastane; lace overlay 90% nylon, 10% elastane.
• Attachment system: Central O-ring for universal dildo compatibility; adjustable waist and thigh straps for secure positioning.
• Power source: No electronic components; fully mechanical design for reliable, maintenance-free performance.
• Box contents: One Diva XS harness, care instructions, and storage bag.
• Cleaning: Machine wash cold water, hang dry; avoid direct heat.

How to use a strap on sextoy

Step into the harness and pull it up to your waist, then secure and tighten the adjustable straps around your waist and thighs until it feels snug and stable. Attach your chosen dildo firmly to the central O-ring, ensuring the connection is tight before any activity. Apply water-based lubricant generously to the dildo and the area of penetration to reduce friction and increase comfort for both partners.

During use, start slowly and communicate with your partner about comfort, pressure, and depth. Experiment with different positions—doggy style, missionary, or cowgirl—to find angles that work best for both of you. For those exploring power-exchange dynamics, the harness pairs beautifully with restraints and other control tools; browse the Sensuva On collection for complementary products that deepen your scenes. Always prioritize your partner's comfort and establish clear signals before beginning.

Care and storage

Machine wash the harness in cold water and hang it to dry completely before storing. Avoid direct heat sources, which can damage the elastane. Clean any removable attachments separately with toy cleaner and allow them to dry fully. Store the harness in the included bag in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight to preserve the material's integrity and elasticity over time.

Learn more

Understanding harness fit, positioning, and communication techniques will deepen your confidence and pleasure. Our guide Take Me On A Wild Ride covers essential tips for using strap-on harnesses safely and effectively. Whether you're new to harness play or refining your technique, these resources will enhance your experience and help you get the most from your purchase.

Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

This harness delivers exceptional control in my scenes. Its precision XS fit allows me to move with authority, and the lace overlay creates a psychological layer that intensifies submission. Adjustable straps let me customize pressure and positioning exactly as I need—a critical element of my dominance practice. The secure O-ring attachment means I never worry about mechanical failure mid-scene.

What I appreciate most is how the elegant design triggers vulnerability in my submissives. The lace reads as refined cruelty—beautiful yet commanding. My subjects respond to the visual sophistication combined with the physical restraint the harness provides. Each movement becomes a calculated assertion of control. The material hugs the body in a way that announces my authority without words.

I've found this harness particularly effective for extended training sessions where psychological dominance matters as much as physical sensation. The comfort of the nylon-elastane blend means I can maintain scenes longer without distraction. Submissives often report that the harness itself—its fit, its presence, its aesthetic—deepens their sense of surrender before penetration even begins.

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Why you'll reach for it

Pick up the Strap On Me Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS at BDSM Australia when you want precision fit, elegant design, and reliable performance in one harness. Its secure adjustable straps and universal O-ring attachment give you flexibility and control, while the lace detailing adds psychological depth to your scenes. Order today and discover the confidence that comes from a harness built for your body and your desires. Trusted by Customers Across Australia.