Bondage Collar, Leash, And Dildo Ring Set By Strap-On-Me

Coordinating multiple bondage tools drains your focus and breaks the scene. This set combines collar, leash, and dildo ring into one integrated system, letting you move fluidly between restraint and penetration without fumbling or switching gear.

What it is

The Strap-On-Me Bondage Collar, Leash, and Dildo Ring Set unites three essential BDSM tools into one coordinated kit. The leatherette collar sits comfortably and securely around the neck, the metal chain attaches via sturdy clasps for direct control, and the silicone dildo ring integrates into a harness for penetration. Bronze-finish hardware lends a refined aesthetic while the transformable design lets you reconfigure the set for different scenes—from guided leash play to strap-on positioning to full bondage scenarios.

What sets this apart from buying pieces separately is the seamless integration. Each component works with the others, and the engineering anticipates real play patterns. See the full BDSM Australia range of Bondage Leads to explore how leash control fits into your broader practice.

Key features

• Adjustable collar: Fits neck circumferences from 12 to 18 inches, so it suits different body types without slipping or cutting off circulation.
• 36-inch metal chain: Long enough for varied control dynamics—short tether for close dominance or extended length for movement and spatial play.
• Body-safe silicone ring: Sits snugly on the dildo, holds securely in a harness, and cleans easily without degrading.
• Transformable handle: Allows you to reconfigure the set for collar-and-leash scenes, bondage positioning, or penetrative play without removing components.
• Durable construction: Leatherette and metal withstand repeated use and intense scenes while maintaining structural integrity and comfort.

Specifications

• Collar dimensions: 1 inch wide, adjustable from 12 to 18 inches in circumference.
• Chain specifications: 36 inches long with metal clasps at both ends for secure attachment to collar anchor points.
• Dildo ring: 1.5 inches in diameter, accommodates standard harness attachments.
• Materials: Premium leatherette collar, body-safe medical-grade silicone ring, durable metal chain and hardware.
• Power: Manual operation; no batteries, electronics, or charging required.
• Box contents: Leatherette collar, metal chain with clasps, silicone dildo ring, discrete fabric storage bag.

How to use a collars and lead

Start by adjusting the collar around your partner's neck—it should sit snugly but allow one finger to slip underneath for comfort and safety. Attach the metal chain to the collar's clasps, ensuring both connections are secure. Test the fit before you begin the scene. Communicate clearly about pressure, circulation, and any discomfort. If you're using the dildo ring, insert it into your harness and check the alignment before penetration begins.

During the scene, use the chain to guide your partner's head and body position, applying steady pressure rather than jerking. Vary the chain length and tension to create different dynamics—a short, tight hold conveys intensity; a longer lead allows more movement and exploration. See the full BDSM Australia range of Bondage Collars if you want to layer additional collar styles into your practice. Check in regularly with your partner about comfort, and always remove the collar immediately if they signal distress or discomfort.

Care and storage

Wipe the leatherette collar and metal chain with a damp cloth and mild soap after each use, then dry thoroughly. Clean the silicone dildo ring with a dedicated sex toy cleaner or warm soapy water, rinsing completely. Store all components in the provided discrete bag, away from direct sunlight and extreme heat. Keep the collar away from sharp objects that might puncture or tear the material.

Learn more

Understanding power exchange dynamics and scene safety will deepen your use of this kit. Research consent frameworks, negotiation practices, and aftercare routines specific to collaring and leash play. For inspiration on how others explore BDSM themes, read Best Adult Video Sites to discover educational and entertaining content.

Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

This kit has become essential to my dominance practice. The collar's snug fit creates immediate psychological surrender in my submissives—they understand instantly that they've entered my control. The chain's weight and sound reinforce that transition, and I use tension changes to signal approval or heightened demands.

My technique involves wearing the submissive down through prolonged collar time. Hours of gentle, consistent chain guidance condition them to anticipate my movements and obey instinctively. The dildo ring transforms the dynamic completely—it shifts from restraint into possession, and I've observed submissives reaching profound vulnerability at that moment.

Advanced scenes combine all three elements deliberately. I'll position a submissive on their knees using the chain, maintain eye contact, then introduce penetration with calculated slowness. The bronze finish catches light in ways that reinforce my control visually. Submissives often report feeling both objectified and cherished—that paradox is where real power exchange lives.

See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.

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Why you'll reach for it

Secure control and seamless scene flow matter when power exchange is your focus. This kit delivers both—collar, leash, and dildo ring work as a unified system, letting you move from restraint to penetration without breaking intensity or fumbling for separate gear. Buy it at BDSM Australia and step into scenes that feel complete and intentional from start to finish. From First Time Buyers to Experienced Players.