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Starter Lover'S Kit By California Exotics - Sex Kits
Starter Lover'S Kit By California Exotics - Sex Kits
Starter Lover'S Kit By California Exotics - Sex Kits

Starter Lover'S Kit By California Exotics

$59.99
$59.99

Complete beginner collection with multiple toys and accessories for couples exploration

Key Features:

Comprehensive sexual exploration package

Multiple stimulation accessories included

Waterproof and user-friendly design

Suitable for beginners and experienced users

Integrated pleasure components with varied functions

SKU: KT-172-NOATTRIBUTES-SHOP-NONE-49945
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Sex Kits
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Exploring pleasure together can feel overwhelming without the right tools. Starter Lover's Kit gives you everything needed—massager, beads, rings, sleeve—so you and your partner can discover what works for both of you, all in one collection.

At a glance
  • What's inside: Massager, beads, erection rings, stimulation sleeve
  • Material: 100% body-safe silicone, phthalate-free
  • Power: Rechargeable USB battery, multi-speed vibration
  • Waterproof: IPX7 rating for shower and bath play
  • Size range: Massager 6 inches, beads 8 inches, sleeve 6.75 inches
  • Includes: Charging cable, storage bag, instruction manual
🚚 Plain, discreet packaging🔒 Discreet billing↩︎ Hygiene-conscious returns policy

What it is

Starter Lover's Kit is a five-piece collection designed for couples and individuals ready to explore varied sensations together. Each component—powerful personal massager, textured orgasm beads, supportive erection rings, and internal stimulation sleeve—works standalone or combines for layered pleasure. Medical-grade silicone ensures safety and durability, while waterproof construction opens possibilities beyond the bedroom.

What sets this kit apart is its balance of beginner-friendly simplicity and genuine versatility. You're not buying one toy; you're getting a complete system that grows with your confidence and curiosity. See the full BDSM Australia range of Sex Kits to compare other multi-piece options.

Key features

  • Multi-speed vibration: Five distinct settings let you move from gentle exploration to intense stimulation at your own pace.
  • Rechargeable battery: USB charging means no constant battery replacements; one full charge lasts through multiple sessions.
  • Waterproof design: IPX7 rating makes every component safe for water play, showers, or baths without performance loss.
  • Travel lock function: Prevents accidental activation in bags or luggage, so you can pack discreetly and confidently.
  • Body-safe materials: Phthalate-free silicone resists bacteria growth and feels smooth against skin, with no odour or taste.

Specifications

  • Personal massager: 6 inches long, 1 inch diameter; five vibration patterns plus pulse mode.
  • Orgasm beads: 8 inches total length, 0.75 inch bead diameter; graduated sizing for progressive internal stimulation.
  • Erection rings: 1.5 inches outer diameter, 1.5 inches inner diameter; flexible silicone fits most penis sizes.
  • Stimulation sleeve: 6.75 inches long, 2 inches diameter; textured interior for enhanced friction and sensation.
  • Battery: Rechargeable lithium-ion; USB-C charging cable included; approximately 90-minute runtime per charge.
  • Box contents: Massager, beads, two erection rings, sleeve, charging cable, microfibre storage bag, full instruction manual.

How to use a sex kit

Start by charging all components fully using the included USB cable. Apply water-based lubricant generously to any internal toy before use. Press the power button on the massager to activate, then cycle through vibration speeds with the control buttons. You can use the massager externally on the clitoris or insert it vaginally. Slip erection rings around the penis base for enhanced firmness and longer-lasting arousal.

For combined play, introduce one component at a time, allowing your body to adjust before adding another. The beads work best inserted slowly and moved gently during arousal. The sleeve slides over the penis and can be used with or without the rings. Pair different components based on what feels right in the moment. Explore Sex Games that incorporate kit components for structured partner play and shared discovery.

Apply water-based lubricant before each use, clean all components with toy cleaner after play, and never share items without thorough washing and drying first. Safety first. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice; it does not account for your individual circumstances. Discontinue use immediately if you experience pain, numbness, discolouration, irritation or discomfort, and seek advice from a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition or if symptoms persist.

Care and storage

Wash all components with mild soap and warm water or dedicated toy cleaner immediately after use. Rinse thoroughly and air-dry completely on a clean towel before storing. Keep everything in the provided microfibre bag away from direct sunlight, heat, and extreme cold. Store in a cool, dry place. Never use silicone-based lubricants, as they can degrade the material over time.

Learn more

Understanding what you want from a pleasure kit makes the whole experience more satisfying. Read practical advice on choosing toys that match your goals and comfort level. Check out Who Should Buy A Sex Doll for deeper insight into selecting products that genuinely fit your needs.

Mistress Athena's training notes

Control over a submissive's pleasure response requires the right tools, and this kit delivers precisely what I need. The massager's graduated vibration settings let me orchestrate arousal with surgical precision—I edge my submissives for hours, denying release until they're completely undone. The beads provide internal stimulation that makes even experienced slaves vulnerable and obedient.

My most effective technique involves alternating between components without warning. One moment the massager brings them to the edge; the next, I introduce the beads while keeping the rings in place. The psychological anticipation becomes as powerful as the physical sensation. Watching a submissive's body language shift—their breathing quicken, their muscles tense—tells me exactly how far I can push them.

The waterproof design opens creative scenarios beyond traditional scenes. Shower bondage with this kit produces intense sensory overload. Temperature play—warming the toys under hot water or cooling them briefly—adds another layer of control. Every element serves my purpose: absolute dominance over their pleasure and denial.

See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.

How it compares

Feature Starter Lover's Kit Basic Couples' Vibrator Premium Deluxe Collection
Number of components 5 pieces (massager, beads, rings, sleeve, accessories) 1 vibrator only 8+ pieces with remote control and app
Waterproof rating IPX7 (full submersion safe) Splash-resistant only IPX8 (unlimited depth)
Vibration modes 5 patterns plus pulse 3 speeds 12+ customizable patterns
Battery life 90 minutes per charge 60 minutes per charge 120 minutes per charge
Best for Couples and beginners exploring variety Solo or partnered single-toy use Advanced users wanting maximum features and control

Why you'll reach for it

Browse this kit when you're ready to move beyond single toys and discover what real variety feels like. Five distinct components mean you're never bored, and the waterproof design lets you play anywhere—bed, shower, or bath. At BDSM Australia, you'll find everything included and ready to use straight out of the box. Order now and start exploring together. Australia's BDSM Specialists for Over 15 Years.

BDSM Australia ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.

Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.

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1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.

Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.

2. Rural Areas (within Australia)

All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.

Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.

Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.

International Shipping

The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.

Please note in regards to all orders

– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.
– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.
– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.
– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm
– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order.  If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.

Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.

We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.

Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.

Due to health and safety regulations, sex-toy.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.

This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.

To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.

You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.

Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully. 

Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.
If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

Damages and issues

Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.

Exceptions / non-returnable items

We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.

Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.

Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.

Refunds

We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.

Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund too.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Starter Lover's Kit by California Exotics?
The Starter Lover's Kit is a comprehensive sexual exploration package containing multiple adult pleasure accessories, including a waterproof personal massager, orgasm beads, erection rings, and a stimulation sleeve designed for enhanced sexual experiences.
How does the Starter Lover's Kit enhance sexual pleasure?
The kit provides multiple stimulation options through its integrated components, allowing users to explore different sensations with a personal massager, textured orgasm beads, supportive erection rings, and a specialized stimulation sleeve.
Can beginners use the Starter Lover's Kit safely?
The kit is specifically designed for individuals new to sexual exploration, featuring user-friendly accessories with multiple settings and comfortable materials that allow gradual and comfortable introduction to different pleasure techniques.
Where can the Starter Lover's Kit's components be used effectively?
Components can be used in bedroom settings, during intimate encounters, or for personal exploration, with waterproof features enabling use in shower or bath environments for added excitement and convenience.
Will the Starter Lover's Kit work for BDSM play?
While primarily a pleasure kit, several components like erection rings and stimulation sleeves can be incorporated into light bondage or sensory exploration scenarios for enhanced sexual experiences.

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