1 3

S&M Exs & Ohs Crystal Day Bdsm Collar By Sportsheets

$44.99
$44.99

Crystal-adorned BDSM collar in red and black with S&M Exs & Ohs lettering for submission play

Key Features:

Adjustable length for customized fit

Premium materials: iron and zinc alloy

Ruby red crystal accent design

Discreet wearability in multiple settings

Symbolizes power exchange dynamics

Vendor: Sportsheets
SKU: NEW-6874
Availability: In stock
Product type: Collars and Leads
Please hurry! Only 3 left in stock
Colour: Red

A BDSM collar that doubles as jewellery can feel like a contradiction—but this one solves it. Sportsheets S&M Exs & Ohs Crystal Day BDSM Collar Jewellery Red/Black combines ruby-red crystals and matte black chain to mark submission while looking like an elegant accessory you can wear anywhere.

At a glance
  • Length: Adjustable 23–50 cm
  • Material: Iron alloy, acrylic, zinc alloy
  • Lock: Custom black lock and key system
  • Design: Ruby crystals on matte black chain
  • Use: Power exchange, submission, everyday wear
  • Box contents: Collar, lock, key, care guide
🚚 Plain, discreet packaging🔒 Discreet billing↩︎ Hygiene-conscious returns policy

What it is

This collar bridges high-fashion design and BDSM function. Built from iron alloy, acrylic, and zinc alloy, it features striking ruby-red crystals set against a matte black chain. The adjustable mechanism spans 23–50 cm, fitting most neck sizes with precision. A custom black lock and key system provides secure attachment and symbolic control during power exchange.

What sets it apart is its dual life. Worn in public, it reads as jewellery—elegant, understated, beautiful. In private, the crystals and lock become tools of dominance and submission. See the full BDSM Australia range of Bondage Leads to explore other ways to establish control and connection.

Key features

  • Adjustable fit: Spans 23–50 cm with a smooth mechanism that accommodates different neck sizes and intensity preferences.
  • Dual-purpose design: Works as both elegant jewellery for everyday wear and a powerful BDSM symbol in intimate scenes.
  • Premium materials: Iron alloy, acrylic, and zinc alloy create durability and visual appeal without bulk or discomfort.
  • Custom locking system: The black lock and key mechanism provides secure attachment and reinforces power dynamics.
  • Crystal detailing: Ruby-red stones catch light and create a striking visual focal point that intensifies the psychological impact of submission.

Specifications

  • Total length range: 23–50 cm adjustable for personalized neck fit and comfort level.
  • Material breakdown: 50% iron alloy, 40% acrylic, 10% zinc alloy for strength and aesthetic quality.
  • Closure system: Custom black lock with matching key; mechanical operation, no batteries required.
  • Weight and feel: Substantial enough to provide constant physical reminder of submission without causing neck strain.
  • What's included: Collar, custom black lock, key, and care instructions.

How to use a collars and lead

Start by adjusting the collar to your desired length using the integrated mechanism. Position it around the neck and secure it with the custom black lock, ensuring it sits comfortably but firmly enough to be felt throughout wear. The crystals should face outward to maximize visual impact during intimate moments or discreet public wear.

During power exchange scenes, the lock becomes a focal point for submission and control. You can adjust tension based on intensity preferences or psychological needs. Pair it with other restraints for complex bondage scenarios, or wear it alone as a constant reminder of your dynamic. See the full BDSM Australia range of Fetish Collars to discover other collar styles that complement different scenes and relationships.

Always ensure the collar sits comfortably without restricting breathing or blood flow; check the fit regularly and remove immediately if any numbness, tingling, or discomfort occurs. Safety first. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice; it does not account for your individual circumstances. Discontinue use immediately if you experience pain, numbness, discolouration, irritation or discomfort, and seek advice from a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition or if symptoms persist.

Care and storage

Wipe the collar clean with a soft, dry cloth after each use to preserve the crystals and matte finish. Keep it away from water, harsh chemicals, and extreme heat. Store in a cool, dry place when not in use. Periodically check the lock mechanism to ensure it operates smoothly and securely.

Learn more

Understanding the psychology of collar wear deepens your power exchange practice. A collar marks transition, consent, and the physical anchor of your dynamic. Read more about the deeper aspects of submission and control in our guide to Fat Fetishism for broader perspectives on desire and identity in BDSM.

Mistress Athena's training notes

This collar's crystals catch the light in ways that mesmerize my submissives the moment I lock it around their neck. The weight grounds them instantly—a physical anchor that keeps their mind tethered to my control. I've learned to use the adjustment mechanism strategically, tightening it just enough to create that constant, gentle reminder of their position beneath me.

What I find most powerful is how this piece works in public. A submissive wearing it at a vanilla dinner, knowing what it means, what I hold the key to—that's where the real domination happens. Their awareness of the collar becomes a trigger. They move differently, speak more carefully, seek my approval with their eyes.

The lock mechanism itself is a tool. I'll deliberately adjust it during scenes, creating anticipation with each small movement. Some submissives become visibly more compliant the moment they hear the lock click. The crystals transform into a symbol of their surrender, something beautiful that marks them as mine.

See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.

How it compares

Feature Sportsheets S&M Exs & Ohs Crystal Day Standard Leather Collar Stainless Steel Collar
Aesthetic appeal Jewellery-grade with crystal detailing; discreet public wear Classic BDSM look; clearly identifiable as bondage gear Sleek, industrial appearance; very visible as restraint
Adjustability Smooth mechanism, 23–50 cm range Buckle or snap closures; limited sizing options Fixed or limited adjustment; precise fit required upfront
Material durability Iron alloy, acrylic, zinc; resists wear; easy to clean Leather requires conditioning and careful storage Extremely durable; may require padding for comfort
Locking security Custom black lock and key; symbolic and secure Typically no locking feature; relies on buckle Padlock-compatible; very secure, less discreet
Best for Power exchange with aesthetic focus; dual public/private wear Traditional BDSM scenes; private wear Intense bondage; maximalist aesthetic

Why you'll reach for it

Check out this collar at BDSM Australia when you want a piece that honours both your aesthetic and your submission. It's the rare accessory that works as jewellery by day and a powerful symbol of control by night. The adjustable fit, premium materials, and crystal detailing make it a go-to for anyone serious about blending elegance with power exchange. Order yours today and discover how a collar can transform your dynamic. Everything for Bondage Under One Roof.

BDSM Australia ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.

Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.

Orders addressed to P.O box, G.P.O box or Parcel Collect will be handled by Australia Post. Extra time should be allocated for these orders.

Shipping Transit Times (Including Free Shipping)

Shipping time refers to the estimated time that it will take to deliver your order after it’s ready to ship (Please note this does not include time to process your order). Shipping time does not commence after your order is put through but begins the moment your order has been processed and is ready to dispatch via the our freight carrier..

1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.

Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.

2. Rural Areas (within Australia)

All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.

Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.

Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.

International Shipping

The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.

Please note in regards to all orders

– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.
– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.
– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.
– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm
– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order.  If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.

Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.

We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.

Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.

Due to health and safety regulations, sex-toy.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.

This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.

To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.

You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.

Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully. 

Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.
If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

Damages and issues

Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.

Exceptions / non-returnable items

We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.

Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.

Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.

Refunds

We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.

Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund too.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Sportsheets S&M Exs & Ohs Crystal Day BDSM Collar?
A luxurious ruby red crystal and matte black chain collar designed for power exchange dynamics, featuring adjustable length from 23cm to 50cm and crafted from premium iron alloy and zinc materials.
Does this BDSM collar provide secure restraint?
Yes, the collar features precise adjustability and sturdy construction, ensuring secure attachment with multiple connection points that allow controlled restriction during bondage and domination scenes.
When should the Sportsheets BDSM collar be worn?
Ideal for private intimate encounters, BDSM play sessions, and discreet public wear. The elegant design allows seamless transition between personal and social environments without drawing unwanted attention.
Will the crystal BDSM collar enhance submission dynamics?
Absolutely. The sophisticated design signals power exchange, creates psychological impact through visual aesthetics, and provides a tangible symbol of dominance and submission in BDSM interactions.
Should this collar be used in advanced bondage play?
Recommended for experienced practitioners who understand power dynamics. Offers precise control mechanisms, comfortable fit, and aesthetic appeal for sophisticated BDSM practitioners seeking refined restraint accessories.

Related Products

Recently Viewed

Why Shop With BDSM Australia?

FAST ORDER DISPATCH

We ship same day on all in-stock orders placed before 12pm! Free shipping on all orders above $200.

DISCREET PACKAGING

All of our shipments come in discreet packaging ensuring those nosy neighbours will never know!

INTERNATIONAL SHIPPING

We ship our full range of products worldwide with fast dispatch for orders before 12pm Sydney EST!