Adjustable harness and dildo set for beginners exploring strap-on play with secure fit
Key Features:
Beginner-friendly strap-on kit with adjustable design
Body-safe silicone dildo with moderate dimensions
Harness fits up to 60-inch hip measurements
Perfect for sexual exploration and role play
Comfortable, approachable introduction to strap-on experiences
Couldn't load pickup availability
Couples new to strap-on play often feel uncertain about fit, comfort, and technique. This beginner's kit removes the guesswork with an adjustable harness, body-safe silicone dildo, and everything needed to explore together confidently.
Sportsheets New Comers Strap On and Dildo Set is a complete beginner's kit designed to make strap-on exploration accessible and comfortable. The adjustable harness accommodates hip sizes from 24 to 60 inches, ensuring a secure fit for most body types. The included silicone dildo measures 1.25 inches in diameter—a thoughtful size that balances approachability with satisfying sensation. Soft Velboa fabric and durable polypropylene webbing create a harness that feels good against skin and holds firm during use.
What sets this kit apart is its practical versatility and beginner-friendly design. The harness is machine washable, making cleanup simple and hygienic. Multiple O-ring sizes let you customize the fit for different dildo sizes, so as you grow more experienced, you can explore other toys without buying a new harness. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me products to discover other options as your confidence builds.
Start by adjusting the harness to fit snugly around your hips. Select the appropriate O-ring for the dildo, then apply water-based lubricant generously to the toy. Position yourself and your partner so the dildo aligns with the desired angle of entry. Communicate openly about comfort, pace, and depth before and during use. Begin slowly, allowing your partner time to adjust to the sensation.
Once you're both comfortable, experiment with rhythm and positioning to find what feels best. Different angles and depths create different sensations, so pay attention to your partner's responses. The Adam & Eve Sextoys collection offers complementary toys that pair beautifully with strap-on play, from vibrators to clitoral stimulators. After use, wash the harness in cool water and clean the dildo with warm soapy water, then dry thoroughly before storing in the included bag.
Machine wash the harness in cool water and air dry completely before storage. Clean the silicone dildo with warm water and mild soap, then pat dry. Store both pieces in the provided discrete bag in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Avoid silicone-based lubricants, as they can degrade the material over time. With proper care, this set will remain hygienic and durable for years.
Understanding the techniques and safety practices around strap-on play deepens your confidence and pleasure. Resources exist to help couples navigate communication, positioning, and comfort. Cracking The Whip On Whips offers insights into BDSM practices and power dynamics. Take time to educate yourself and your partner before your first experience.
This set's modest size makes it ideal for introducing submissives to penetration in a controlled, measured way. The adjustable harness gives me precise positioning and stability during training sessions, allowing me to maintain dominance while gauging my submissive's physical and psychological responses. Observation is key—breathing patterns, muscle tension, and eye contact all tell me when to advance or hold steady.
Penetration serves as both physical sensation and psychological reinforcement of power exchange. The dildo becomes an extension of my will and control. I've found that beginning gently, then gradually increasing depth and pace, builds trust and deepens submission. Each submissive responds differently; some need slow introduction, others crave intensity from the start.
The machine-washable harness appeals to me practically—cleanliness is non-negotiable in my practice. Multiple O-ring sizes mean I can adapt the set to suit different training objectives. Whether I'm conditioning obedience through penetration or exploring a submissive's limits, this kit delivers reliable, straightforward control.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Sportsheets New Comers Set | Standard Harness-Only Kit | Premium Curved Strap-On |
|---|---|---|---|
| Included dildo | Yes, 1.25-inch silicone | No, harness only | Yes, curved, larger |
| Harness fit range | 24–60 inches | One-size-fits-most | 24–60 inches |
| Washable harness | Yes, machine wash | Hand wash only | Hand wash only |
| Best for | Beginners, couples exploring | Budget-conscious, DIY enthusiasts | Experienced users, advanced play |
Get the confidence to explore strap-on play without overthinking fit, size, or safety. This complete kit arrives ready to use—no hunting for compatible pieces or worrying whether the harness will fit. At BDSM Australia, you'll find a partner in discovery, not just a product. Order now and begin your strap-on journey with a trusted, beginner-friendly set. Helping Australians Find the Right BDSM Gear.
BDSM Australia ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.
Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.
Orders addressed to P.O box, G.P.O box or Parcel Collect will be handled by Australia Post. Extra time should be allocated for these orders.
Shipping Transit Times (Including Free Shipping)
Shipping time refers to the estimated time that it will take to deliver your order after it’s ready to ship (Please note this does not include time to process your order). Shipping time does not commence after your order is put through but begins the moment your order has been processed and is ready to dispatch via the our freight carrier..
1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)
All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.
Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.
2. Rural Areas (within Australia)
All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.
Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.
Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.
International Shipping
The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.
Please note in regards to all orders
– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.
– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.
– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.
– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm
– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order. If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.
Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.
We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.
Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.
Due to health and safety regulations, sex-toy.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.
This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.
To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.
You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.
Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.
Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.
If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.
Damages and issues
Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.
Exceptions / non-returnable items
We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.
Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.
Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.
Refunds
We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.
Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund too.