Womens Silicone Vaginal Dilator Dental Set by Shots Toys

Vaginal tightness and penetration discomfort can make sexual activity painful or impossible. This five-piece dilator set uses graduated medical-grade silicone to gently stretch vaginal tissue at your own pace, combined with a vibrating bullet for integrated pleasure and arousal during therapy.

What it is

The Shots Toys Womens Silicone Vaginal Dilator Set is a therapeutic system designed to address vaginismus, vaginal tightness, and penetration difficulty through gradual tissue relaxation. Five graduated dilators progress from 1.1 cm to 2.5 cm insertable diameter, allowing you to advance at your own pace without forcing tissue beyond its current capacity. Each dilator features smooth, medical-grade silicone that glides easily with water-based lubricant. The included vibrating bullet delivers clitoral stimulation during or after dilator sessions, integrating pleasure with therapeutic progression.

Unlike standard sex toys designed purely for pleasure, these dilators serve a clinical purpose while maintaining sensual application. Progressive sizing ensures comfortable advancement without pain or tissue trauma. See the full BDSM Australia range of Sex Toys for other options suited to your needs.

Key features

• Progressive sizing system: Five distinct dilators ranging from 1.1 cm to 2.5 cm insertable diameter allow gradual advancement through your own timeline.
• Medical-grade silicone: Phthalate-free, body-safe, non-porous material supports vaginal health and prevents allergic reactions during extended therapeutic use.
• Bonus vibrating bullet: Single AAA battery-powered vibrator operates at one speed mode, delivering clitoral stimulation during or independent of dilator sessions.
• Waterproof construction: Fully waterproof design enables shower use, temperature play, and simplified cleaning without material degradation.
• Complete therapy system: Combines five graduated dilators with vibrating bullet and instruction manual providing progression guidelines for vaginismus treatment and penetration conditioning.

Specifications

• Dilator dimensions: Small (1.1 cm diameter, 7.5 cm insertable, 11 cm total length). Small-Medium (1.6 cm diameter, 9 cm insertable, 12.8 cm total). Medium-Large (1.9 cm diameter, 10 cm insertable, 14 cm total). Large (2.1 cm diameter, 12 cm insertable, 16 cm total). Extra Large (2.5 cm diameter, 13.5 cm insertable, 17.9 cm total).
• Material: Medical-grade silicone, phthalate-free, hypoallergenic, non-toxic, suitable for sensitive vaginal tissue.
• Vibrating bullet: Requires one AAA battery (not included), single speed mode, approximately 60 dB noise level, waterproof operation.
• Waterproof design: Fully submersible for shower use, easy cleaning with warm water and mild soap or specialist toy cleaner.
• Package contents: Five graduated silicone dilators, one vibrating bullet, instruction manual with therapy guidelines and progression recommendations.

How to use a dental and clinical

Start with the smallest dilator and apply generous water-based lubricant to both the dilator and your vaginal opening. Insert slowly and gently, advancing only to a comfortable depth without forcing. Hold the dilator in place for several minutes, allowing your vaginal muscles to relax around it. Perform gentle in-and-out movements with minimal depth changes. Daily sessions of five to ten minutes build tissue tolerance progressively. Once insertion and comfort improve with the smallest size, advance to the next dilator in the set.

Use the vibrating bullet on your clitoris during or after dilator sessions to enhance arousal and pleasure. Combine dilator use with the vibrating bullet for simultaneous clitoral and vaginal stimulation during therapy. Progress through multiple dilators sequentially within single sessions once comfort allows, creating gradual stretching progression. Incorporate Kegel exercises while holding dilators inside the vagina, strengthening pelvic floor muscles alongside tissue relaxation. Partners can control dilator insertion depth and movement speed, adding psychological elements to physical therapy. See the full BDSM Australia range of Lubes and Essentials to find the right lubricant for your sessions.

Care and storage

Wash all dilators with warm water and mild soap after each use, or use specialist sex toy cleaner. Dry completely with a soft cloth before storage. Store in a cool, dry location away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures. Keep the vibrating bullet separate with its battery removed during storage. Inspect dilators regularly for any signs of wear or damage before use.

Learn more

Understanding vaginismus and penetration anxiety helps you approach dilator therapy with realistic expectations and patience. Progressive tissue relaxation requires consistent practice over weeks or months, not immediate results. Clinical research supports gradual dilation therapy as an effective treatment for vaginal tightness and penetration difficulty. Read more about clinical approaches to sexual health at Its Dr Stacy Friedman A Clinical Sexologist Certified Sex Coach Ask Me Anything.

Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

The Shots Toys Womens Silicone Vaginal Dilator Set serves as an invaluable conditioning tool in my dominance practice. Beginning with the smallest dilator, I require my submissives to insert it themselves while I observe their reactions and control the pacing. Combining the vibrating bullet with dilator insertion creates powerful submission responses, as submissives become dependent on clitoral stimulation while adapting to vaginal stretching. My careful observation of breathing patterns and muscle tension guides advancement to larger sizes only when complete relaxation occurs.

I frequently employ the dilators as extended punishment, requiring wear periods while submissives remain restrained and unable to remove them independently. Submissives who begin with vaginismus experience dramatic psychological shifts after consistent dilator training under my direction. Progressive sizing perfectly mirrors the psychological progression from resistance to complete submission and acceptance of deeper penetration.

Advanced training protocols involve elaborate insertion sequences where submissives must progress through each size while I time them and apply consequences for hesitation. Bondage scenarios where I restrain submissives in positions forcing them to accommodate larger sizes create intense psychological pressure alongside physical sensation. The vibrating bullet functions as reward system, providing clitoral pleasure only after successful completion of dilator insertion exercises.

Waterproof design proves essential for shower-based training where I control water temperature and pressure alongside dilator insertion. Extended training sessions lasting hours require submissives to maintain insertion while performing other tasks or enduring additional sensations. Consistent dilator training produces submissives with enhanced vaginal capacity, increased pleasure responsiveness, and demonstrably deeper psychological submission patterns.

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Why you'll reach for it

Browse the Shots Toys Womels Silicone Vaginal Dilator Set at BDSM Australia when you're ready to address penetration anxiety or vaginismus through evidence-based progressive therapy. Five graduated medical-grade silicone dilators combined with a vibrating bullet create a complete conditioning system for vaginal relaxation and pleasure integration. Waterproof construction supports extended training and easy cleaning. Order now and begin your progression toward comfortable, pain-free penetration. Trusted by Customers Across Australia.