Bondage spreader bar with adjustable length and ankle restraints for position control during play
Key Features:
Premium metal and leather BDSM restraint device
Fully adjustable with soft Velcro closures
24-inch length for comprehensive body positioning
Designed for multiple restraint configurations
Professional-grade construction for safe exploration
Couldn't load pickup availability
Spreading and restraint during intimate play can be awkward without proper support. Scarlet Couture Spreader Bar holds partners in position securely, letting you focus on sensation and control rather than logistics.
Scarlet Couture Spreader Bar is a bondage restraint designed to hold partners in fixed positions during intimate play. A stainless steel core runs the full 24-inch length, with adjustable width to suit different body types. Soft vegan leather cuffs attach at each end with Velcro closures that tighten securely yet release instantly if needed. The bar itself is lightweight but rigid, giving you stable control without bulk. See the full BDSM Australia range of Spreaders Bars.
What sets this spreader bar apart is its balance of durability and ease. The stainless steel won't rust or degrade, and the vegan leather is both ethical and body-safe. Velcro closures mean you're never fumbling with buckles mid-scene, and they work reliably through repeated use. The adjustable width accommodates wrists or ankles, and the bar can be positioned horizontally, vertically, or at angles, giving you flexibility in how you arrange your partner's body.
Start by adjusting the bar to your desired width—wider for more intense spread, narrower for gentler restraint. Slide the leather cuffs around your partner's wrists or ankles, then press the Velcro firmly in place. Check that the fit is snug but not cutting off circulation; you should be able to slide one finger underneath. Position your partner as planned: lying down with legs spread, bent over, or standing with arms extended.
Once restrained, you control how long they stay in position and what sensations you introduce. The bar keeps limbs fixed, so you can focus on touch, impact, or temperature play without managing their movement. Pairing this spreader bar with Testicle Hangers adds another layer of restraint if both partners consent. Always check in regularly, watch for numbness or excessive discomfort, and release immediately if your partner signals distress.
Wipe the stainless steel bar with a clean, dry cloth after each use, or use an alcohol wipe if contact with fluids occurred. Clean the vegan leather cuffs with mild soap and warm water, then pat dry. Store the bar and cuffs in the included storage bag in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Keep away from sharp objects that might snag the leather or scratch the metal.
Understanding restraint safety and consent is essential to any bondage scene. Reading about techniques, communication, and risk awareness helps you play confidently and responsibly. Explore more insights on intimacy and pleasure in our guide to Most Popular Gay Porn Stars.
Scarlet Couture's adjustable width gives me precision control I value in every scene. Positioning a submissive with their legs spread at exact angles lets me observe their psychological response—the shift from resistance to acceptance—without distraction. The stainless steel holds firm, never wavering, which reinforces the reality of their restraint.
My submissives often underestimate what 24 inches of steel and leather will do to their sense of vulnerability. Once secured, they realize their body is no longer theirs to direct. That surrender is where real training begins. The Velcro cuffs release instantly if needed, but they don't know that—the silence and speed of it reinforce my control.
I've used this bar to teach patience, obedience, and the pleasure of powerlessness. Leaving a submissive spread for extended periods, denying touch, builds psychological depth that impact play alone cannot. The bar becomes a conversation between Dominant and submissive—one spoken entirely in restraint and release.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Scarlet Couture Spreader Bar | Basic Metal Spreader Bar | Adjustable Rope Spreader |
|---|---|---|---|
| Setup speed | Under 1 minute; Velcro cuffs | 2–3 minutes; buckle closures | 5+ minutes; rope adjustment required |
| Width range | 18–36 inches | Fixed 24 inches | Unlimited with rope |
| Material durability | Stainless steel, vegan leather; long-lasting | Standard steel; may rust | Rope frays; requires replacement |
| Quick release | Yes; Velcro opens instantly | No; manual unbuckling | No; rope must be untied |
| Best for | All experience levels; frequent use | Budget-conscious beginners | Rope enthusiasts; custom positioning |
Pick up Scarlet Couture Spreader Bar at BDSM Australia when you're ready to add reliable, elegant restraint to your scenes. Its adjustable width fits your body, its quick-release cuffs prioritize safety, and its stainless steel construction lasts through years of use. Whether you're exploring bondage for the first time or deepening an established practice, this bar delivers control and comfort in equal measure. Service That Keeps Customers Coming Back.
BDSM Australia ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.
Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.
Orders addressed to P.O box, G.P.O box or Parcel Collect will be handled by Australia Post. Extra time should be allocated for these orders.
Shipping Transit Times (Including Free Shipping)
Shipping time refers to the estimated time that it will take to deliver your order after it’s ready to ship (Please note this does not include time to process your order). Shipping time does not commence after your order is put through but begins the moment your order has been processed and is ready to dispatch via the our freight carrier..
1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)
All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.
Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.
2. Rural Areas (within Australia)
All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.
Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.
Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.
International Shipping
The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.
Please note in regards to all orders
– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.
– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.
– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.
– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm
– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order. If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.
Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.
We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.
Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.
Due to health and safety regulations, sex-toy.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.
This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.
To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.
You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.
Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.
Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.
If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.
Damages and issues
Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.
Exceptions / non-returnable items
We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.
Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.
Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.
Refunds
We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.
Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund too.