Adjustable harness system with silicone dildo attachment for couples role play and power exchange sessions.
Key Features:
Four-way adjustable harness for customized fit
Premium body-safe silicone dildo construction
Supports hip sizes up to 60 inches
Designed for advanced sexual exploration
Durable polyester and polypropylene materials
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Exploring strap-on play with a partner requires the right harness and dildo combination. This kit pairs an adjustable four-way harness with a body-safe silicone dildo, letting you fit securely and explore together with confidence and comfort.
This strap-on kit combines a four-way adjustable harness with a premium silicone dildo, built for couples exploring penetrative play together. The harness wraps around the waist and thighs with reinforced stitching, holding the dildo securely in place via a nitrile O-ring. Medical-grade silicone ensures body safety, while the polyester and polypropylene construction delivers durability through repeated use. The design accommodates hip circumferences up to 60 inches, making it suitable for different body types and configurations.
What sets this kit apart is its adjustability and simplicity. The four-way straps let you dial in a custom fit without fuss, and the O-ring attachment means you can swap compatible toys if you want variety. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me to explore other harness styles and dildo options.
Start by adjusting all four harness straps to fit snugly around your waist and thighs. Attach the silicone dildo to the O-ring, twisting until it's secure and won't slip during use. Apply water-based lubricant generously to the dildo and the area being penetrated. Position yourself carefully with your partner, communicate about comfort and depth before beginning, and start slowly to allow your partner to adjust.
During play, vary your pace and angle to find what feels best for both of you. Check in regularly about comfort and pleasure. The kit works well with other toys for external stimulation or sensory exploration. See the full BDSM Australia range of Sensuva On for complementary products that pair well with strap-on play. After finishing, remove the harness and clean both pieces with mild soap and warm water before storing in the provided bag.
Machine wash the harness in cold water and air-dry completely before storing. Clean the silicone dildo with mild soap and warm water, then pat dry. Store both pieces in the provided bag away from direct sunlight and heat. Check the harness stitching and O-ring for wear before each use, and replace the dildo if you notice any tears or damage to the silicone.
Understanding strap-on play technique helps you get more from this kit and build confidence with your partner. Communication, patience, and proper lubrication are the foundations of good penetrative play. For a deeper look at hands-on techniques and what to expect, read Hands On A Finger Sucking Expose.
This harness gives me absolute control over my submissive's experience. The adjustable straps let me tighten or loosen the fit deliberately, building anticipation through small adjustments. My submissive feels completely secured, which deepens their surrender. Each strap becomes part of my protocol—a physical reminder of my authority.
The silicone dildo's smooth surface and firm construction make it ideal for precision work. I use varying depths and pressures to test my submissive's limits and observe their psychological responses. Gentle, measured movements often break down resistance faster than aggression; the dildo becomes an instrument of calculated control.
What I appreciate most is the kit's reliability. The O-ring stays tight, the straps don't slip, and the material is forgiving enough for extended scenes. This consistency allows me to focus entirely on my submissive's mental state rather than adjusting equipment mid-scene. That stability translates into deeper power exchange.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Indulge in Intimate Exploration - S&M Strap-On & Silicone Dildo Set | Standard Leather Harness with Dildo | Beginner Silicone Harness Kit |
|---|---|---|---|
| Fit range | 24–60 inch waist | One-size fits most (limited adjustment) | 20–50 inch waist |
| Material | Medical-grade silicone, polyester/polypropylene | Leather, stainless steel | Silicone harness, silicone dildo |
| Dildo included | Yes, 6 inches | Yes, varies | Yes, 5 inches |
| Care | Machine washable harness | Hand wash, condition leather | Hand wash all parts |
| Best for | Couples seeking adjustability and durability | Those preferring traditional aesthetic | New users wanting simplicity |
Secure your strap-on sessions with a harness that actually fits your body and stays put during play. The four-way adjustability, medical-grade dildo, and machine-washable construction make this kit practical and reliable at BDSM Australia. Whether you're new to strap-on exploration or refining your technique, this combination delivers comfort and control. Order today and start exploring with confidence. Australia's BDSM Specialists for Over 15 Years.
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