Grinders Paramour Silicone Grinding Pad By Ns Novelties

Grinding feels more natural than traditional vibration, but finding a toy that delivers broad-surface stimulation without losing power is rare. The NS Novelties Grinders Paramour Silicone Grinding Pad solves this with dual motors and a plush silicone pad designed specifically for friction-based pleasure.

What it is

The NS Novelties Grinders Paramour Silicone Grinding Pad is a dual-motor vibrator built for grinding rather than insertion alone. Its large, plush silicone surface delivers broad stimulation across your vulva and clitoris, while the narrower 4.8-inch insertable section allows internal use simultaneously. The dual-motor system creates synchronized vibration patterns that respond to your movement, building sensation dynamically as you grind. Unlike traditional vibrators that focus pressure on a single point, this pad spreads stimulation across a wider area, mimicking the natural grinding motion many people prefer.

What sets the Paramour apart is its thoughtful design for friction-based pleasure. The premium body-safe silicone is non-porous, hypoallergenic, and durable enough for extended sessions. Its waterproof rating means you can use it in the shower or bath. The rechargeable battery eliminates the need for disposable batteries, and multiple intensity levels let you customize sensation from gentle to intense. See the full BDSM Australia range of Steel Sex Toys if you're interested in exploring durable alternatives for long-term play.

Key features

• Dual-motor system: Synchronized vibrations across the plush silicone surface create complex, layered sensations that build gradually and respond to your grinding motion.
• Broad-surface stimulation: The 5.83 × 7.48-inch pad delivers stimulation across a wider area than traditional vibrators, allowing you to control contact and intensity through positioning.
• Insertable pad design: The 4.8-inch narrower section allows internal use while the external surface continues stimulating your clitoris and vulva simultaneously.
• Body-safe silicone: Non-porous, hypoallergenic construction is free from phthalates and harmful chemicals, making it safe for sensitive skin and easy to clean.
• Waterproof and rechargeable: USB charging provides extended playtime without batteries; waterproof rating allows use in any environment including showers and baths.

Specifications

• Overall dimensions: 5.83 inches long, 7.48 inches wide, 2.95 inches thick for comfortable positioning during use.
• Insertable section: 4.8 inches long and 1.46 inches wide, designed for internal use while maintaining external contact.
• Material: Premium body-safe silicone that is non-porous, hypoallergenic, phthalate-free, and suitable for all skin types.
• Power system: Rechargeable via included USB charging cable; multiple intensity levels and vibration patterns for customized stimulation.
• Water resistance: Fully waterproof for shower, bath, or pool use; includes storage pouch, instruction manual, and USB cable in the box.

How to use a sex toys for couple

Start by charging the Paramour fully using the included USB cable. Apply water-based lubricant to your vulva or the insertable pad section for smooth gliding. Position yourself comfortably lying down or sitting, then press the power button and select your desired intensity level. You can grind directly against the pad's surface for broad clitoral stimulation, or insert the narrower section internally while grinding against the external portion. Begin at lower intensities and increase gradually as arousal builds. Experiment with different angles and pressure levels to discover what feels best. The dual motors respond to your movement, creating dynamic sensations that intensify with your rhythm.

For partnered play, one partner can control the intensity while the other focuses on grinding rhythm and movement. Try securing your position with bondage while grinding against the pad for extended stimulation without hand fatigue. Combine the Paramour with other toys or during partnered penetration to layer sensations. A dominant partner can control access to the vibrator as part of power exchange, building anticipation and deepening submission. Explore the Closet Collection Toys to find complementary items that enhance your shared scenes. Experiment with different lubricants—silicone-based creates smoother gliding while water-based provides more friction and resistance.

Care and storage

Clean the Paramour after each use with warm water and mild soap, or use a dedicated toy cleaner designed for silicone. Ensure the charging port remains completely dry before storage. Store it in the included pouch away from direct sunlight, heat sources, and extreme temperatures. Never use silicone-based lubricants, as they degrade the material; stick to water-based or hybrid formulas. Inspect the toy regularly for any tears or damage before use.

Learn more

Understanding how different toys work with your body helps you make informed choices about your pleasure. The grinding pad format offers unique advantages over traditional vibrators, particularly if you prefer friction-based stimulation or broader surface contact. Read our detailed guide on Sex Toys For The Disabled to explore how adaptable toys like the Paramour can enhance accessibility and comfort during play.

Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

I've incorporated the Grinders Paramour into my training protocols for submissives requiring extended stimulation without traditional penetration. The grinding pad proves exceptionally useful for building arousal while maintaining control—my submissives must ask permission before increasing intensity, creating psychological dependence on my authority. The broad-surface stimulation triggers different responses than conventional vibrators; the grinding motion feels primal, deepening submission in ways point-pressure toys cannot achieve.

I use the Paramour during sensory deprivation scenes where I control vibrations while my submissive remains blindfolded and restrained. Extended use creates specific desperation as continuous vibration builds tension without sharp peaks, making submissives more compliant and eager to please. I strategically deny orgasm, using the pad to push them toward the edge repeatedly while they remain completely vulnerable and dependent on my control.

My training sequences using the Paramour prove exceptionally effective for establishing dominance. I start new submissives on the lowest setting, gradually increasing intensity only when they demonstrate proper obedience and respect. The vibrator serves as both reward and punishment—increased intensity for compliance, complete removal for disobedience. I've discovered that the grinding motion creates unique vulnerability; submissives become significantly more attentive to my needs and eager to serve.

I frequently pair the Paramour with extended bondage sessions lasting several hours, controlling arousal and denying release until complete mental surrender occurs. Combining it with sensory play—alternating between vibration and ice or heat—creates complex psychological responses. Submissives become aroused simply by seeing the vibrator, demonstrating the depth of conditioning achieved through consistent, strategic use during my training protocols.

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Why you'll reach for it

Add the NS Novelties Grinders Paramour Silicone Grinding Pad to your collection and experience stimulation designed around how your body naturally moves. The dual-motor system and plush silicone pad deliver synchronized vibrations that respond to your grinding rhythm, creating sensations traditional vibrators simply cannot match. Whether you're exploring solo pleasure or incorporating it into partnered BDSM scenes, the Paramour's versatility and power make it an essential tool at BDSM Australia. Order yours today and discover the difference broad-surface grinding pleasure makes. Strong Brands. Honest Service. Genuine Care.