Love Rider Butterfly Lover By California Exotics

Anal play requires confidence and control—but finding a harness system that delivers both sensation and psychological dominance is rare. Love Rider Butterfly Lover combines a precisely engineered silicone plug with an adjustable body harness, giving you complete command during intense BDSM scenes.

What it is

Love Rider Butterfly Lover is a sophisticated harness system pairing an anatomically shaped anal plug with an adjustable body harness for serious BDSM play. The medical-grade silicone plug measures 5.5 inches long with a 1.5-inch diameter, sized to challenge intermediate and advanced users. Its distinctive butterfly shape provides targeted stimulation while the integrated harness secures the plug in place, enabling extended scenes without slippage or discomfort.

What sets this product apart is its dual-function design: the plug delivers intense physical sensation while the harness creates psychological control during power exchange. The textured silicone surface amplifies every movement, and the adjustable attachment points allow you to position it for vaginal or anal play. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me to explore complementary harness options.

Key features

• Butterfly-shaped design: Unique contours target sensitive areas with precision, delivering layered sensations during anal and external stimulation.
• Medical-grade silicone: Hypoallergenic, phthalate-free material that's body-safe, easy to clean, and compatible with water-based lubricants.
• Adjustable harness system: Multiple attachment points allow you to customize fit and positioning for different body types and scene intensities.
• Waterproof construction: Fully submersible design works in water and integrates seamlessly with latex underwear and restraint systems.
• Manual operation: No batteries or electronic components—complete user control ensures reliable performance during extended BDSM sessions.

Specifications

• Total length: 5.5 inches; insertable length 4 inches; maximum diameter 1.5 inches
• Material: 100% medical-grade silicone, phthalate-free and hypoallergenic
• Harness: Adjustable fabric straps with multiple anchor points; fits a range of body sizes
• Waterproofing: Fully waterproof; safe for shower and bath play
• Lubricant compatibility: Water-based lubricants only; silicone lubricants may degrade material
• Box contents: Butterfly plug, adjustable body harness, storage bag, instruction manual

How to use a strap on sextoy

Begin by cleaning Love Rider Butterfly Lover thoroughly with warm soapy water or toy cleaner. Apply generous amounts of water-based lubricant to the plug and your body. Insert slowly, allowing your muscles to relax and adjust to the width. Once the plug is seated comfortably, fasten the harness around your waist and between your legs, adjusting each strap for a secure fit without cutting off circulation.

During play, the harness keeps the plug positioned for hands-free control, freeing you to focus on movement and sensation. Combine it with Sensuva On for enhanced external stimulation. Start slowly in your first scene, experimenting with positioning and pressure. Remove the harness carefully after play, clean both components with toy cleaner, and store in the provided bag away from direct sunlight.

Care and storage

Wash Love Rider Butterfly Lover with mild soap and warm water or antibacterial toy cleaner after every use. Rinse thoroughly and pat dry with a lint-free cloth. Store in the included storage bag in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, heat sources, and other silicone toys. Inspect the plug and harness regularly for any cracks or material degradation before each use.

Learn more

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Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

The Love Rider Butterfly Lover's butterfly shape is deceptive in its simplicity. What appears elegant on the surface becomes an instrument of profound control when deployed strategically. During a scene, the textured silicone surface creates sensations my submissives cannot ignore—they remain hyperaware of their vulnerability, their complete dependence on my command.

My submissives respond intensely to this design. The harness allows me to leave the plug in place for extended periods, transforming their body into a vessel of my will. Psychological submission deepens when they understand they cannot remove it without permission. I've observed how their breathing changes, how their focus narrows to a single point of awareness—the plug, the harness, my presence.

Positioning matters enormously. Kneeling, standing, or bent over during bondage creates different pressure points and intensities. The butterfly shape accommodates these variations beautifully. My most effective technique involves slow, deliberate adjustments to the harness straps while my submissive holds position—each micro-movement reminds them that their body belongs entirely to me.

See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.

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Why you'll reach for it

Check out Love Rider Butterfly Lover at BDSM Australia when you're ready to deepen your power exchange and explore advanced anal play with confidence. Its unique butterfly shape, secure harness system, and medical-grade silicone construction make it the choice for serious BDSM practitioners who demand both sensation and control. Order yours today and transform your scenes into unforgettable experiences of dominance and submission. Trusted by Customers Across Australia.