Spread the Love Anal Plug by Evolved

Anal play demands control and sensation you can trust. Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Anal Plug with Wireless Remote delivers dual-finger spreading combined with powerful vibrations—all controlled wirelessly from across the room for partner play and power exchange dynamics.

What it is

Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Anal Plug with Wireless Remote combines spreading and vibration into one body-safe anal toy. Two tapered fingers widen at the base and slim toward the tip, creating a rhythmic expanding sensation as they spread apart and contract together. Nine vibration speeds pair with eight spreading speeds for customizable internal stimulation. An ergonomic handle functions as a safety base, preventing complete internal insertion. Wireless remote control operates from up to 9.8 meters away, enabling partner control during intimate scenes or solo exploration with hands-free operation.

This anal plug is made from phthalate-free and latex-free silicone, making it safe for sensitive skin and long-term wear. The smooth, non-porous surface resists bacterial growth and cleans easily. IPX6 waterproof rating allows use in showers and baths. See the full BDSM Australia range of Butt Plugs to compare traditional and spreading designs for your experience level.

Key features

• Dual-finger spreading mechanism: Two tapered fingers expand up to 2.5 cm apart, creating rhythmic expanding and contracting sensations that intensify internal awareness and psychological focus.
• Nine vibration speeds and eight spreading speeds: Independent controls allow layering of sensations or using spreading alone for subtle anal training and extended wear sessions.
• Wireless remote control: Operates from 9.8 meters away, enabling partner control dynamics and power exchange play where the wearer cannot predict or control the next sensation.
• Body-safe silicone construction: Phthalate-free and latex-free material resists bacterial growth, cleans easily, and suits sensitive skin for comfortable long-term wear.
• IPX6 waterproof rating: Fully submersible design allows shower and bath play, expanding where and when you can use this anal toy.

Specifications

• Dimensions: Insertable length 11.4 cm, diameter 3.9 cm, finger spread distance reaches 2.5 cm maximum at widest point.
• Material: Phthalate-free, latex-free silicone, lab-tested for body safety. Smooth, non-porous surface prevents bacterial growth and allows thorough cleaning.
• Power and control: Rechargeable via USB cable, wireless remote with 9.8 meter operating range. Nine vibration patterns and eight spreading patterns provide extensive customization options.
• Waterproofing: IPX6 rating permits full submersion in water, shower use, and bath play without risk to electronics or motor function.
• Package contents: Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Anal Plug with Wireless Remote, wireless remote control, USB charging cable, and instruction manual.

How to use a butt plug

Apply generous amounts of water-based lubricant to the tapered fingers and your anal opening. Press the remote button once to activate the lowest vibration setting. Slowly insert the slimmed tip into your anus, allowing your sphincter to relax and accommodate the toy. Once fully inserted, activate the spreading function to feel the fingers gently expand and contract. Increase vibration and spreading speeds gradually using the remote. Thrust gently or remain still while the toy delivers internal stimulation. Press the power button to deactivate all functions before removal.

Experienced users can combine this anal plug with other toys for intensified sensations. Partner control via wireless remote adds exciting power-exchange dynamics to intimate scenes. The spreading motion works exceptionally well during anal stretching training sessions where progressive relaxation builds tolerance over time. Combine vibrations with finger spreading at maximum width for intense internal pressure during partner play. Experiment with different vibration patterns while the fingers spread to discover your preferred sensation combinations. See the full BDSM Australia range of Pee Thru Cock Plugs if you're interested in exploring additional partner play options. The waterproof design enables shower play with partners controlling the spreading and vibration remotely for discreet play scenarios.

Care and storage

Wash the anal plug immediately after use with warm water and mild soap, paying special attention to the finger crevices where lubricant accumulates. Use a silicone-specific toy cleaner for thorough sanitization. Dry completely with a lint-free cloth before storage. Store in a cool, dry location away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures. Use only water-based lubricants; oil and silicone lubricants degrade silicone material. Charge the battery monthly even during storage periods to maintain battery longevity and prevent degradation.

Learn more

Understanding how to keep your anal plug secure during use prevents discomfort and interruptions. Read more about common issues and solutions in Why Your Butt Plug Keeps Slipping Out. Proper lubrication, body positioning, and correct toy sizing all contribute to comfortable, confident anal play. Explore how spreading designs offer unique sensations compared to traditional vibrating plugs for your anal training journey.

Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Anal Plug has become essential in my dungeon protocols for progressive anal training. The spreading fingers create constant expansion awareness that keeps submissives acutely conscious of their anal opening throughout extended sessions. Rhythmic spreading triggers deeper submission responses than traditional plugs because the sensation demands continuous mental focus and surrender. When I control the remote, my submissives experience psychological intensity from not knowing when spreading will intensify or vibrations will surge.

I've developed specific protocols using this plug that deepen submission effectively. During initial anal training, I start with spreading on its lowest setting while keeping vibrations off, allowing new submissives to acclimate without overwhelming stimulation. I gradually introduce vibration patterns while monitoring breathing and body tension, using physical responses to determine progression speed. Alternating between rapid spreading cycles and prolonged static expansion creates psychological confusion that deepens surrender.

Combining this toy with strict bondage positions where submissives must maintain specific postures while I control both spreading and vibration creates scenarios merging physical endurance with mental obedience. Extended wear sessions lasting several hours benefit from intermittent triggering of unexpected spreading and vibration bursts to maintain heightened awareness. During punishment scenarios, spreading intensification serves as clear cause-and-effect consequences for infractions.

The wireless range allows me to maintain control during various positions and movements, making this toy ideal for dynamic scenes rather than stationary bondage. I recommend this toy to experienced submissives seeking deeper anal training because dual sensations create more complex internal awareness than single-function plugs. The spreading mechanism creates unique opportunities for exploring power exchange because the sensation cannot be predicted or controlled by the wearer.

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Why you'll reach for it

Explore the unique sensation of dual-finger spreading combined with wireless remote control when you choose Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Anal Plug with Wireless Remote at BDSM Australia. Nine vibration speeds and eight spreading patterns deliver customizable internal stimulation for solo sessions or partner-controlled power exchange dynamics. Body-safe silicone construction ensures comfort during extended wear, while IPX6 waterproof design enables shower play and training sessions anywhere. Order today and discover why spreading sensations create deeper submission and more intense internal awareness than traditional vibrating plugs alone. Trusted by Customers Across Australia.