Purple neoprene bondage set with restraints and accessories for couples exploring sensual play together
Key Features:
Advanced 20-function wireless remote control
Neoprene and Luv-Touch material construction
Interchangeable O-ring system for dildo compatibility
Fits waists up to 39 inches
Hands-free stimulation technology
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Coordinating pleasure during partnered play can feel clumsy and disconnected. This harness puts wireless control in your hands—literally—so you and your partner can focus on sensation and connection instead of logistics.
Fetish Fantasy Series Remote Control Fantasy Harness is a strap-on harness that combines wearable design with wireless vibration technology. Built from body-safe neoprene with a soft Luv-Touch exterior, it holds a 20-function vibrating bullet in a dedicated pocket. The thong-style back keeps the bullet in place during play, while the adjustable nylon waistband accommodates waists from 24 to 39 inches. Four silicone O-rings allow you to attach different dildo sizes, making the harness adaptable to your preferences.
What sets this harness apart is its wireless remote system. You control vibration patterns from up to 20 feet away, letting you tease and stimulate your partner hands-free. The bullet itself is waterproof and powered by replaceable batteries. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me harnesses and accessories for additional options.
Start by adjusting the waistband to fit snugly around your hips. Select the O-ring that matches your dildo size and secure it onto the harness. Insert the vibrating bullet into its designated pocket on the front. Power on the remote and test the vibration modes. Position the harness so the bullet sits comfortably against your body. Attach your chosen dildo through the selected O-ring, ensuring it's stable before beginning play.
During partnered play, one person wears the harness while the other holds the remote. Experiment with different vibration patterns to discover what feels best. The wireless range lets you build anticipation by controlling stimulation from a distance. Many people combine this harness with other restraints or toys to deepen the power dynamic. Explore positions that let both partners enjoy the sensations and the control element. Check out Adam & Eve Sextoys for complementary items that pair well with harness play.
Hand-wash the neoprene harness with mild soap and warm water after each use. Remove the bullet before washing. Sanitize the silicone O-rings by boiling them for a few minutes, or wash with warm soapy water. Let all parts air-dry completely before storing. Keep the harness and bullet in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Replace batteries in the remote regularly to avoid power loss during play.
Understanding positioning and technique can transform your experience with a strap-on harness. Read more about what works best for your body and preferences. Strap On Positions offers detailed guidance on angles, comfort, and pleasure for all experience levels.
This harness has become essential to my practice. The wireless remote transforms the dynamic instantly—my submissive never knows when the next vibration pattern arrives, keeping them in constant psychological tension. I use it to reward obedience with pleasure, then withdraw stimulation as punishment for hesitation. The precision control lets me read their body language and respond in real time, deepening their surrender.
Positioning the harness allows for extended wear during training sessions. My submissives learn to hold position despite the distraction, building focus and discipline. The multiple O-ring options mean I can switch attachments mid-scene without removing the harness, maintaining momentum and control. Watching someone struggle to remain still while the bullet vibrates teaches them the value of restraint—both literal and psychological.
The 20-function range gives me subtle tools I prefer over crude on-off switches. A slow pulse establishes baseline control; rapid sequences test their composure. Pairing the remote with verbal commands creates layered submission—they respond to my voice while managing physical sensation. This harness rewards my attention to detail and their willingness to surrender to precision.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Fetish Fantasy Series Remote Control Fantasy Harness | Standard Neoprene Strap-On | Luxury Leather Harness |
|---|---|---|---|
| Remote control | 20-function wireless | None | None |
| Material | Neoprene and Luv-Touch | Neoprene | Leather |
| Waist range | 24–39 inches | 24–39 inches | 26–42 inches |
| O-ring options | Four interchangeable rings | One fixed ring | Two rings |
| Waterproof | Bullet only | No | No |
Grab this harness when you want hands-free control and wireless freedom during partnered play. The 20 vibration functions give you endless ways to build tension and pleasure, while the interchangeable O-rings adapt to your preferences. At BDSM Australia, you'll find everything you need to explore power dynamics and sensation together. Order now and discover how wireless control transforms intimacy into an adventure. From First Time Buyers to Experienced Players.
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