Fetish Fantasy Remote Control Butterfly Strap On

Wearing a vibrator during partnered sex means juggling control—but this remote-controlled butterfly lets your partner take over from across the room. Twenty vibration settings, wireless range, and a secure harness give you hands-free stimulation while they command the sensations.

What it is

Fetish Fantasy Remote Control Butterfly Strap On Sex Toy is a wearable vibrator engineered for partnered play and solo use. The butterfly shape positions against your clitoris with textured nubs for multi-dimensional stimulation. A secure elastic harness holds it in place during movement, penetration, or everyday wear. Its compact design delivers power without bulk—4.13 inches of body-safe PU-coated ABS plastic engineered for comfort and durability.

What sets this apart is the wireless remote: your partner controls all twenty vibration settings from up to twenty feet away, creating surprise sensations and psychological excitement. Unlike traditional vibrators that demand manual adjustment, this strap-on frees both hands for touch, bondage, or other play. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me products.

Key features

• Remote control: Wireless technology lets your partner command vibrations from across the room, adding psychological intensity and surprise.
• Twenty vibration settings: Range from gentle teasing pulses to intense steady rhythms, so you find your perfect intensity.
• Butterfly design: Strategically placed nubs target sensitive tissue while the shape nestles securely against your body.
• Adjustable harness: Elastic straps accommodate different body types and stay secure during movement or penetration.
• Waterproof and hygienic: Body-safe plastic is non-porous, easy to clean, and safe for water play or shower use.

Specifications

• Dimensions: 4.13 inches length, 2.48 inches width, 0.91 inches depth.
• Material: PU-coated ABS plastic with smooth, hygienic finish.
• Power: Three LR44/AG13 button-cell batteries (included); easily replaceable.
• Vibration modes: Twenty distinct settings controlled via wireless remote.
• Range: Remote operates up to twenty feet away; waterproof vibrator body.
• Contents: Butterfly vibrator, wireless remote, three batteries, user manual, discreet storage bag.

How to use a strap on sextoy

Insert the three batteries into both the vibrator and remote, then test the connection. Adjust the elastic harness around your waist or hips until it sits snugly. Position the butterfly against your clitoris, ensuring the nubs make contact with sensitive tissue. Your partner can now press the remote buttons to cycle through vibration settings. Start with lower intensities and gradually explore stronger patterns as you become comfortable.

Experiment with wearing it during foreplay, penetration, or public teasing scenarios. Let your partner surprise you with random intensity changes or create rhythmic patterns. Combine it with other stimulation, bondage, or power-exchange dynamics to deepen the experience. Explore the full Adam & Eve Sextoys collection for complementary products that enhance partnered play. Always communicate boundaries and use a safeword if you're engaging in power-exchange scenarios.

Care and storage

Remove batteries before cleaning to protect the electronics. Wash the vibrator body with mild soap and warm water, then pat dry with a soft cloth. Avoid submerging the remote or battery compartments. Store both the vibrator and remote in the included discreet bag, away from direct sunlight and extreme heat or cold. Check batteries before each use and replace them if the vibrations weaken.

Learn more

Understanding how your body responds to different stimulation types helps you get the most from any toy. Read more about how external factors shape sexual response in our guide to the Impact Of Porn On Male Sexual Health. Knowledge and communication build confidence and pleasure in partnered play.

Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

This butterfly strap-on is my preferred tool for teaching submissives the difference between anticipation and relief. I have them wear it throughout a scene while I control the remote from across the room, building their desperation through unpredictable pulses. The wireless range lets me step back and observe their body language—watching them squirm, hearing their breathing change, seeing them fight to maintain composure. That psychological edge is where true power exchange lives.

Combining this toy with bondage amplifies the control dynamic significantly. When a submissive is restrained and cannot escape the sensations, their surrender becomes absolute. I'll tease them with gentle settings, then spike the intensity without warning. Their vulnerability in that moment—completely at my mercy—demonstrates the hierarchy perfectly. The remote becomes an extension of my dominance; every button press reinforces who controls their pleasure and denial.

I've used this device to train selective focus and obedience. A submissive must maintain eye contact, answer questions, or perform tasks while managing the vibrations I'm delivering. Breaking their concentration becomes part of the punishment. Some have told me afterward that the psychological torment exceeds the physical sensation—they're trapped between following my commands and managing their own responses. That's when I know the scene has worked exactly as intended.

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Why you'll reach for it

Order Fetish Fantasy Remote Control Butterfly Strap On Sex Toy at BDSM Australia and discover how wireless control transforms partnered intimacy. Twenty vibration settings, a secure harness, and twenty-foot remote range let you and your partner explore sensation play without compromise. Whether you're building anticipation, practicing power exchange, or simply enjoying hands-free pleasure, this butterfly delivers consistent stimulation and genuine versatility. Safe Shopping from an Established Australian Business.