Complete bondage kit with restraints, blindfold, and accessories for power exchange play and control
Key Features:
Premium penetrative and vibrational pleasure system
Body-safe silicone construction with adjustable harness
Removable O-ring for dildo compatibility
Three-speed bullet vibrator for external stimulation
Beginner-friendly design with advanced features
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Couples often hesitate about strap-on play because they're unsure how to start or worry about comfort and fit. This set removes those barriers with an adjustable harness, body-safe silicone dildo, and three-speed bullet vibrator—everything needed for confident exploration.
This strap-on set combines a fully adjustable harness, a 7-inch silicone dildo with graduated texture, and a waterproof bullet vibrator in one complete kit. The harness accommodates a wide range of body sizes and shapes, while the removable O-ring lets you swap in other toys. Three vibration speeds give you control over intensity, and the suction-cup base opens up hands-free play options. Built from body-safe silicone, every component is easy to clean and designed to last.
What sets this kit apart is its beginner-friendly design paired with room to grow. The graduated texture on the dildo creates varied sensations, while the bullet vibrator's three speeds let you dial in exactly what you want. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me for other harness and dildo combinations.
Start by adjusting the harness to a comfortable fit around your waist and between your legs. Secure the dildo firmly into the O-ring, then apply water-based lubricant generously to the dildo. Insert the bullet vibrator into its designated pocket and select your preferred vibration speed. With your partner relaxed and lubricated, slowly guide the dildo in using gentle, steady pressure. Communicate constantly and adjust depth and pace based on feedback.
Once you're comfortable with basic penetration, experiment with different positions like doggy-style, cowgirl, or missionary to find what feels best. The suction-cup base lets you stick the dildo to a flat surface for hands-free solo exploration or partnered play. Try varying the bullet vibrator's speed during penetration to discover what brings the most pleasure. Explore the full range of Strap On Dildos to customise your experience further.
Wash the silicone dildo and harness liner with mild antibacterial soap and warm water after every use. Rinse thoroughly and air dry completely before storing. Keep the set in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and heat. Store the bullet vibrator separately with batteries removed if you won't be using it for several weeks. Only use water-based lubricants to avoid degrading the silicone.
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This strap-on set has become central to my control practice. The adjustable harness ensures a secure fit, and the graduated texture on the dildo creates layers of sensation I can exploit for maximum psychological effect. My submissives quickly learn that comfort is never guaranteed—only what I decide to give them.
The three-speed bullet vibrator is my instrument of precision. I withhold intensity, grant it sparingly, and escalate it only when obedience is absolute. Watching my submissive's body respond to each speed change, knowing they have no control over when relief or intensification comes, reinforces the power dynamic perfectly.
What makes this set exceptional for my work is its versatility. The removable O-ring means I can introduce different sensations mid-scene without breaking momentum. The suction-cup base transforms penetration into an inescapable lesson—they can't pull away, only surrender deeper.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Fetish Fantasy Gold Vibrating Strap-On Dildo Set | Basic Harness + Dildo (No Vibration) | Premium Rechargeable Strap-On System |
|---|---|---|---|
| Vibration options | Three speeds, battery-powered | None | Multiple speeds, rechargeable |
| Harness adjustment range | 26–52 inches | 26–52 inches | 28–54 inches |
| Dildo size | 7 inches total, 6.5 insertable | 7 inches total, 6.5 insertable | 8 inches total, 7 insertable |
| O-ring compatibility | Yes, removable | Yes, removable | Yes, removable |
| Best for | Couples starting strap-on play with vibration | Couples wanting basics without vibration | Users wanting premium features and larger size |
Add this set to your collection when you're ready to move beyond fantasy into real exploration. The adjustable harness, three-speed vibration, and body-safe silicone deliver reliable pleasure without compromise. At BDSM Australia, you'll find everything you need to start confidently. Order now and discover why couples return to this set again and again. Helping Australians Find the Right BDSM Gear.
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