Weighted balls from California Exotics for BDSM training and sensory play with smooth material
Key Features:
Premium medical-grade silicone construction
Precisely weighted for psychological control
2.5-inch diameter for advanced training
Seamless integration with BDSM equipment
Engineered for intense sensory experiences
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Kegel exercises can feel disconnected from real pleasure, leaving you without motivation to stick with training. Embrace Love Balls merge physical strengthening with genuine sensory engagement, giving you weighted resistance that builds pelvic floor control while delivering satisfying sensation in every session.
Embrace Love Balls are weighted silicone spheres designed to strengthen your pelvic floor while providing real physical sensation during training. Each ball measures 2.5 inches across and is crafted from medical-grade silicone that's non-porous, hypoallergenic, and simple to clean. The dual-sphere design lets you explore different placement and movement techniques as your control improves, making them suitable for both newer and experienced users.
What sets these balls apart is their balance of genuine training benefit and psychological engagement. Unlike passive Kegel devices, the weight and texture demand active control from your pelvic muscles, turning exercise into something you'll actually want to do. See the full BDSM Australia range of Sex Dolls to explore other training and sensory tools.
Start by applying water-based lubricant generously to both the balls and your vaginal opening. Insert one ball gently, allowing your pelvic floor muscles to settle around it. Once comfortable, insert the second ball. Begin with simple contractions—tighten your pelvic floor for three seconds, then relax for three seconds—and gradually increase hold time as your strength builds over weeks.
As your control improves, experiment with standing, walking, or changing positions to increase the challenge. Many users find that pairing these with Eye of Love products adds an extra layer of sensory connection during training. Always use water-based lubricant, go slowly if you're new to internal training, and stop immediately if you feel sharp pain or discomfort.
Wash both balls thoroughly with toy cleaner and warm water immediately after each use. Dry completely with a soft cloth before storage. Keep them in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and heat sources. Check the surface regularly for any cracks or damage. Store in the discrete pouch provided to keep them clean and protected.
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These balls demand respect from anyone who uses them. Their weight creates genuine physical consequence—submissives cannot ignore the sensation or pretend compliance. Watching someone hold them while standing, walking, or maintaining a position reveals true pelvic control versus mere posturing. My submissives learn quickly that strength and surrender are not opposites.
Placement becomes a form of protocol in my scenes. I instruct submissives on exact positioning, then require them to maintain that placement while performing other tasks—holding a position, reciting rules, or simply kneeling. The challenge shifts from physical to psychological: they must obey while managing internal sensation. This dual demand builds both muscle and mental discipline.
Temperature play amplifies their psychological impact dramatically. Warming the balls before insertion creates one sensation; cooling them creates another. Alternating between temperatures within a single scene keeps submissives off-balance and hyper-aware of my control over their physical experience. This unpredictability deepens their focus on my direction.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Embrace Love Balls | Standard Kegel Balls | Smart Kegel Trainer |
|---|---|---|---|
| Material | Medical-grade silicone | Plastic or lower-grade silicone | Silicone with electronics |
| Weight & Resistance | Substantial weighted design | Minimal weight | Vibration-based (batteries required) |
| Control & Customization | Fully manual—you decide pace and technique | Passive insertion only | App-controlled; less intuitive |
| Sensory Engagement | Real texture and temperature response | Limited sensation | Vibration feedback only |
| Best For | Users seeking genuine strength and sensation | Beginners wanting passive support | Data-focused training tracking |
Browse Embrace Love Balls at BDSM Australia and discover a training tool that makes pelvic floor strengthening genuinely pleasurable. Real weight, real sensation, and real results—no app, no batteries, just you and your growing control. Order today and start building strength that you'll feel and enjoy in every session. Australia's BDSM Specialists for Over 15 Years.
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