Realistic 7.9 inch dildo with 6.3 inches insertable length and 1.8 inch girth from California Exotics
Key Features:
Hands-free penetrative pleasure without traditional harnesses
Premium body-safe silicone construction
Three integrated vibration motors
Dual stimulation for comprehensive sexual experience
Ergonomic design for maximum comfort and connection
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Partner play without harnesses can feel clunky and restrictive. Come Together Strapless Strap-On frees you from straps entirely, held by pelvic muscles alone, so you and your partner stay close and connected during penetrative play.
Come Together Strapless Strap-On by Evolved Novelties ditches the harness entirely. Instead, the device sits internally and is held in place by your own pelvic floor muscles, creating a hands-free experience that lets you move freely with your partner. Three motors deliver six distinct vibration patterns, with one set of stimulation points inside and another positioned to stimulate your partner externally during penetration.
Medical-grade silicone construction keeps the toy body-safe and smooth against skin. The strapless design means direct contact between you and your partner—no fabric barrier, no adjustment needed mid-scene. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap-On-Me for other harness options.
Charge the device fully before first use. Apply generous water-based lubricant to the insertable shaft and to the external stimulation point. The wearer inserts the internal portion and engages pelvic floor muscles to hold it securely in place. Your partner aligns their body so the external stimulation points make contact with their most sensitive areas.
Once positioned, activate the vibration patterns using the control buttons. Start with lower intensities and increase as desired. Communication with your partner is essential—check in about comfort and pleasure throughout. Explore different positions to find what works best for you both. For couples interested in expanded options, browse the Adam & Eve Sextoys range for complementary items.
Wash the toy thoroughly with warm water and mild soap immediately after use. Dry it completely with a soft cloth before storing in the included storage bag. Keep it away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures. Store in a cool, dry place. Avoid silicone-based lubricants and harsh cleaners, which can degrade the material.
Understanding your body's response to different types of stimulation helps you get the most from this toy. Read more about managing pleasure and sensation in our guide How To Relieve Sexual Tension On Your Period. Knowing what works for you makes partnered play more satisfying.
This strapless design creates an extraordinary power dynamic. My submissive must engage and maintain muscular control throughout our scenes, adding a layer of physical discipline that reinforces mental surrender. When I command the vibration patterns, she experiences the sensation of my control directly—no harness to hide behind, no equipment between us.
The dual motors allow me precise manipulation of her responses. By varying intensity and pattern mid-scene, I can bring her to the edge repeatedly, then deny release entirely. Psychological domination deepens when she realizes her body's pleasure depends entirely on my command of the device.
Direct skin contact intensifies the power exchange. She feels the stimulation against her most sensitive points while knowing I control every pulse. Pelvic muscle engagement becomes part of her submission—maintaining position, staying present, accepting what I give her. This toy transforms intimate play into genuine psychological control.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Come Together Strapless Strap-On | Harness-Based Strap-On | Wearable Vibrator |
|---|---|---|---|
| Setup and ease | Insert and engage muscles; no straps | Requires harness fitting and adjustment | Worn externally; minimal setup |
| Partner connection | Skin-to-skin contact throughout | Fabric barrier between bodies | No internal contact |
| Stimulation points | Dual motors (internal and external) | Single point of penetration | External stimulation only |
| Positioning flexibility | High; move freely with partner | Limited by harness fit | Depends on garment design |
| Best for | Couples wanting intimate, hands-free play | Those preferring traditional strap-on feel | Solo or partnered external play |
Find yourself reaching for Come Together Strapless Strap-On whenever you want penetrative partner play without the fuss of harnesses. Its strapless design means you stay close and connected at BDSM Australia, with three motors delivering customizable sensations for both of you. The medical-grade silicone feels smooth and safe, while the waterproof construction makes cleanup effortless. Order now and discover how freedom from straps transforms your intimate connection. Strong Brands. Honest Service. Genuine Care.
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