Dr. Laura Berman Rechargeable Dilators Sex Kit Set

Vaginal or anal tightness can make intimate exploration uncomfortable or impossible. This four-piece dilator set solves that with progressive sizing, medical-grade silicone, and ten vibration speeds—letting you train at your own pace with complete control.

What it is

The California Exotics Dr. Laura Berman Rechargeable Dilator Set is a four-piece progressive training system designed for controlled, comfortable expansion. Each dilator ranges from 3.5 to 6.5 inches, with widths that increase as you advance. Built from body-safe medical-grade silicone and ABS, the set integrates ten-speed vibration technology and a memory chip that remembers your preferred intensity. This approach lets you work at your own rhythm, building confidence and physical comfort over time.

What sets this kit apart is its methodical design philosophy. Rather than a one-size-fits-all tool, you get four distinct stages, each stepping up gradually. The rechargeable base unit delivers consistent power for up to 60 minutes per charge, and the waterproof rating means you can explore in any setting. See the full BDSM Australia range of Sex Kits to find other progressive training options.

Key features

• Four graduated sizes: Start at 3.5 inches and progress to 6.5 inches, each with proportional width increases for steady advancement.
• Ten vibration speeds: Adjust intensity from subtle to intense, tailoring each session to your comfort and mood.
• Memory chip technology: Your preferred settings save automatically, so every session picks up exactly where you left off.
• Medical-grade materials: Silicone and ABS construction is phthalate-free, hypoallergenic, and built to last through years of use.
• Waterproof and portable: IPX7 rating works in the shower or bath, and the included storage bag keeps everything discreet and organised.

Specifications

• Dilator lengths: 3.5, 4.5, 5.5, and 6.5 inches; widths expand from 0.75 to 1.5 inches across the set.
• Material: 100% body-safe medical-grade silicone with medical-grade ABS base; phthalate-free and hypoallergenic.
• Power and runtime: USB rechargeable; 135 minutes to full charge; up to 60 minutes continuous operation per session.
• Vibration: Ten distinct speed settings; memory chip stores your last-used intensity automatically.
• Waterproofing: IPX7 rating for full submersion safety; travel lock prevents accidental activation.
• Package contents: Four dilators, rechargeable base unit, textured comfort sleeve, USB charging cable, storage bag.

How to use a sex kit

Start by cleaning the dilator thoroughly with medical-grade toy cleaner and warm water. Apply generous water-based lubricant to both the dilator and your vagina or anus. Begin with the smallest size, inserting slowly while breathing deeply and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles. Take your time—there's no rush. Use gentle, controlled movements, adjusting vibration speed to match your comfort level.

As you become more confident, progress to the next size in the sequence. Many people spend several sessions with each dilator before moving up. Combine the dilators with Kegel exercises to strengthen your pelvic floor, or experiment with different positions—lying down, seated, or standing—to discover what feels best. See the full BDSM Australia range of Sounding Kits if you want to explore other specialized training approaches. Always prioritise your own pace and comfort over speed.

Specifications

Care and storage

Clean each dilator with antibacterial toy cleaner after every use, then rinse with warm water and allow to air dry completely. Store the set in the provided bag, away from direct sunlight and extreme heat. Water-based lubricants only—oil and silicone lubes can degrade the silicone material. Keep the rechargeable base unit away from moisture when not in use, and charge it monthly even if you're not using the set regularly.

Learn more

Understanding your body's response to progressive training is key to long-term comfort and confidence. This dilator set is designed around medical principles of gradual adaptation, not speed. Read Sex Impossible for practical insights into training approaches and what to expect at each stage.

Mistress Athena's training notes

By Mistress Athena — professional dominant and kink educator, sole instructor behind BDSM Australia's library of training videos. Read her full bio →

I've integrated this dilator set into my submissive training protocols with excellent results. The four-size progression offers genuine psychological impact—each advancement marks a milestone in their surrender and trust. My subs respond to the gradual challenge, and the memory chip lets me preset exact vibration levels for consistency. Watching them adapt to each size teaches them discipline and patience.

What I appreciate most is the medical-grade design's safety margin. My submissives' wellbeing is non-negotiable, and this set delivers control without compromise. The waterproof rating opens training possibilities beyond the bedroom—shower scenes, for instance, create unique sensory dynamics. I'll often combine the dilators with light restraints, amplifying the psychological experience of surrender.

Observation is everything. I watch breathing patterns, muscle tension, and verbal cues to gauge readiness for progression. Some submissives advance quickly; others need extended time at smaller sizes. Neither pace is wrong—dominance means reading your submissive's limits and respecting them. The vibration settings allow me to introduce surprise and unpredictability, keeping them mentally engaged throughout each session.

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Why you'll reach for it

Find yourself wanting a training tool that respects your pace and builds real confidence over time. This dilator set at BDSM Australia gives you four distinct stages, precise vibration control, and the safety of medical-grade materials in one complete system. Whether you're exploring for the first time or refining your practice, the progressive design and customisable settings make every session count. Order today and start your training journey with a kit designed by a real expert. Safe Shopping from an Established Australian Business.