Bendable vibrating butt plug in black silicone with flexible shaft and powerful motor for customizable anal stimulation and control.
Key Features:
Flexible shaft conforms to individual anal anatomy
Medical-grade silicone body-safe material construction
Wide flared base prevents slipping during wear
Multiple vibration patterns for customizable stimulation
Hands-free design ideal for solo or partnered anal play
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Most butt plugs slip out during wear, breaking your focus and confidence. Bendz Bendable Vibrating Butt Plug Black by Nexus Sex Toys solves that with flexible arms that lock around you, plus six vibration modes controlled remotely from up to eight metres away.
Bendz Bendable Vibrating Butt Plug Black by Nexus Sex Toys is a silicone anal plug engineered to stay in place through its ingenious bendable arms. Insert the plug, and once settled, the arms fold outward to grip and lock around the outside of your body. This anchoring design eliminates slipping, letting you focus on sensation rather than repositioning. The plug itself is pure silicone, smooth and firm yet yielding enough for comfortable insertion and wear.
Six vibration modes deliver varied stimulation patterns, all controlled wirelessly via remote from up to eight metres away—ideal for partnered play or hands-free exploration. Both the toy and remote are fully waterproof and rechargeable, eliminating battery waste and offering flexibility across any setting. See the full BDSM Australia range of Butt Plugs to explore other styles and sizes.
Start by washing the plug thoroughly under warm water with gentle soap. Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to both the plug and your anus—this relaxes the sphincter and makes insertion smooth. Breathe slowly and deeply as you guide the tapered tip inward. Once fully inserted, relax for a moment, then gradually fold the arms outward until they lock snugly around your body. Activate vibration via remote whenever you're ready.
Wear time can range from brief exploration to extended sessions, depending on your comfort and experience. The locked arms keep the plug secure even during movement or position changes. When you're finished, gently fold the arms back inward and slowly withdraw the plug. For deeper exploration and other styles, check out the BDSM Australia collection of Tunnel Plugs for additional options.
Wash the Bendz plug under warm running water with mild soap after each use, then pat dry with a clean cloth. Store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, ideally in a dedicated pouch to avoid dust or contact with other toys. Keep the remote control dry and away from extreme heat. Recharge both toy and remote regularly to maintain battery health, even if you're not using them often.
Understanding why plugs slip is key to choosing one that works for your body. Read our guide to Why Your Butt Plug Keeps Slipping Out to learn what causes movement and how design features like the Bendz arms address that challenge. Knowledge builds confidence.
The locking arms on this plug fascinate me most. Once a submissive is properly positioned and the arms are engaged, they cannot slip free without deliberate action. This creates a delicious control dynamic—I know exactly where that plug is staying, and so does the wearer. The sensation of being locked in place heightens psychological surrender in ways a standard plug simply cannot match.
Vibration control via remote amplifies power exchange beautifully. I can deny stimulation, grant it, or vary it without the submissive's input—they surrender all agency over sensation. The eight-metre range lets me move around the room, heightening anticipation and unpredictability. Six modes provide enough variety to keep scenes fresh across multiple sessions.
Silicone construction means clean-up is fast and thorough, essential when moving between scenes or partners. The waterproof design opens possibilities—bondage scenes in the shower add sensory confusion and intensify vulnerability. Build in rest periods; extended wear demands aftercare and attention to physical and emotional decompression.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | Bendz Bendable Vibrating Butt Plug Black | Standard Silicone Vibrating Plug | Non-Vibrating Flared Plug |
|---|---|---|---|
| Anti-slip design | Bendable locking arms | Flared base only | Flared base only |
| Vibration modes | 6 remote-controlled settings | 3–5 button-controlled settings | None |
| Remote control | 8 metres wireless range | Wired or short range | N/A |
| Waterproofing | Fully submersible toy and remote | Toy waterproof; remote varies | Fully submersible |
| Best for | Partnered power play, extended wear | Solo or partnered vibration play | Sensation and comfort without electronics |
Grab this plug at BDSM Australia if staying securely in place matters more to you than anything else. The bendable arms solve the slip problem that frustrates so many, while six vibration modes and wireless control add versatility to solo sessions or partnered scenes. Rechargeable, waterproof, and built to last—this is a thoughtful investment in reliable sensation and confident wear. Safe Shopping from an Established Australian Business.
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