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All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties

$24.99
$24.99

Silicone strap-on dildo handle by SI Novelties for partnered penetration and hands-free control during play sessions.

Key Features:

Secure harness system for hands-free dildo penetration

Ergonomic handle reduces hand fatigue during extended use

Accommodates multiple dildo sizes and shaft types

Compatible with bondage and BDSM play scenarios

Durable construction designed for vigorous thrusting intensity

Vendor: SI Novelties
SKU: NEW-11984-BLACK
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Strap On Sextoys
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Colour: Black

Strap-on dildos deliver powerful sensation, but handling them during play can feel awkward or unstable. This handle transforms any compatible dong into a tool you can grip, control, and thrust with confidence and precision.

At a glance
  • Material: ABS plastic, phthalate-free
  • Compatibility: Works with Vac-U-Lock and standard base-hole dildos
  • Grip: Ergonomic handle for firm control
  • Use: Penetrative play, partnered or solo
  • Care: Wipe clean, store dry
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What it is

The All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties is a practical grip attachment designed to give you command over any compatible strap-on dildo. Its ergonomic ABS plastic construction clips onto dongs with a Vac-U-Lock base or standard hole, turning an insertable toy into a hand-held tool. This simple addition eliminates fumbling and uncertainty—you get a secure, confident grip for deeper control during partnered or solo play.

Unlike holding a dildo by the harness or its base alone, this handle puts control directly in your palm. The phthalate-free ABS plastic is body-safe and durable enough for regular use in a variety of scenes. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap On Dildos that work with this handle.

Key features

  • Universal fit: Attaches to any Vac-U-Lock or standard base-hole dildo for instant compatibility.
  • Body-safe plastic: ABS material is phthalate-free and easy to clean between uses.
  • Secure grip: Ergonomic handle design lets you hold and control the dong with both hands or one, depending on your scene.
  • Stable positioning: Eliminates shifting or slipping during penetration, giving you and your partner consistent sensation.
  • Lightweight: Adds minimal weight while maximizing control and precision during play.

Specifications

  • Material: ABS plastic, phthalate-free
  • Compatibility: Fits Vac-U-Lock bases and dildos with standard centre holes
  • Grip design: Ergonomic handle for single or two-handed control
  • Cleaning: Wipe with warm water and mild soap; air dry
  • Storage: Keep in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight
  • Box contents: All In Strap On Dildo Handle

How to use a strap on sextoy

Attach the handle to your dildo's base or Vac-U-Lock connection point, ensuring it's fully seated and secure. Hold the handle firmly—one hand for guided control, or both hands for added stability and depth. Start slowly and let your partner signal comfort; communicate throughout. The handle lets you angle and pace thrusts with confidence, reducing fatigue and increasing precision.

Always use plenty of lubrication on the dildo before insertion, and reapply as needed. Slow, steady strokes allow both partners to adjust to sensation and rhythm. Explore the full range of Lubes and Essentials to find what works best for your bodies and play style. Check in with your partner regularly, and never hesitate to pause or stop if either of you feels discomfort.

Always use plenty of lubricant, apply it generously before and during play, start slowly and build pace gradually, and clean the handle and dildo thoroughly with warm water and soap after each use. Safety first. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice; it does not account for your individual circumstances. Discontinue use immediately if you experience pain, numbness, discolouration, irritation or discomfort, and seek advice from a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition or if symptoms persist.

Care and storage

Clean the handle and any attached dildo with warm water and mild soap after every session. Dry both thoroughly with a soft cloth before storage. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and extreme heat. Do not share this toy without thorough cleaning between users, and inspect regularly for signs of wear or damage.

Learn more

Understanding the dynamics of strap-on play—communication, positioning, and pleasure—helps both partners get the most from this tool. Read more about technique and shared sensation in Shared Strap On Pleasure. Your confidence and comfort are the foundation of every scene.

Mistress Athena's training notes

Grip and control are non-negotiable in my practice. This handle transforms a dildo into an extension of my will—the weight shifts from the harness to my hands, where dominance lives. My submissive feels the intentionality in every stroke; there's no ambiguity, no passivity. The handle is precision.

Angle matters. With my fingers wrapped around this grip, depth becomes a statement, not an accident. Slow, deliberate penetration shows control; faster rhythm demonstrates command. My submissive responds to the authority in my movements—the handle amplifies that message through their body.

The phthalate-free ABS plastic is durable enough for repeated, firm use without concern for material breakdown. Between scenes, a quick wash keeps it ready for the next session. For impact play or extended bondage scenes, this handle's ergonomic design prevents hand fatigue, letting me maintain dominance for as long as the scene demands.

See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.

How it compares

Feature All In Strap On Dildo Handle Harness-Only Method Dildo Base Grip
Hand control Full, ergonomic grip Limited; hands stay on harness Awkward; base not designed for gripping
Stability Secure and stable Depends on harness fit Prone to slipping
Precision High; direct hand positioning Moderate; dependent on body movement Low; difficult to angle consistently
Ease of use Quick attach, immediate grip Requires harness donning No attachment; manual holding only
Fatigue Minimal; handle absorbs strain Moderate; full-body engagement needed High; hand tires quickly from direct hold

Why you'll reach for it

Secure grip and confident control are what separate fumbling from dominance. This handle gives you both the moment you attach it to your dildo. Shop at BDSM Australia and add the All In Strap On Dildo Handle to your collection—because every scene deserves a tool that listens to your hand and answers to your command. From First Time Buyers to Experienced Players.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties?
The All In Strap On Dildo Handle is a harness system designed to secure dildos for penetrative sex. This handle attachment allows hands-free insertion and thrusting during partnered sex. The ergonomic design provides control and stability. It accommodates various dildo sizes and shapes for customizable penetration. Perfect for both vaginal and anal insertion experiences.
Can this penis harness handle attachment work with multiple dildo sizes?
Yes, the All In dildo handle accommodates various shaft diameters and lengths through its adjustable grip design. Users can swap different dildos without replacing the harness system. The secure attachment prevents slipping during vigorous thrusting. Compatible with silicone, glass, and steel insertables. This flexibility allows exploration of different penetration intensities and sensations.
How do you properly position the strap-on dildo harness for insertion?
First, secure your chosen dildo firmly into the handle's grip mechanism. Adjust the harness straps around your body for comfortable, snug positioning. Ensure the dildo angles correctly toward the intended penetration zone. Apply water-based lubricant generously to both the dildo and receiving partner. Guide insertion slowly while maintaining control through the handle throughout penetration.
Is this BDSM dildo handle suitable for extended sex sessions?
Yes, the ergonomic handle design reduces hand fatigue during prolonged use. The secure grip mechanism prevents accidental slipping or dropping. Durable construction withstands repeated thrusting without degradation. Adjustable straps accommodate different body types comfortably for extended wear. Proper lubrication maintains comfort throughout longer sessions without irritation.
Where does this insertion harness fit in bondage play scenarios?
Use the All In handle during bondage scenes for hands-free penetration while restraining your partner. Combine with bondage furniture, rope restraint, or BDSM furniture for controlled positioning. The handle allows dominant control over penetration depth, speed, and angle. Pairs effectively with other bondage equipment for immobilizing partners. Enables intense domination dynamics during structured BDSM sessions.

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