Silicone strap-on dildo handle by SI Novelties for partnered penetration and hands-free control during play sessions.
Key Features:
Secure harness system for hands-free dildo penetration
Ergonomic handle reduces hand fatigue during extended use
Accommodates multiple dildo sizes and shaft types
Compatible with bondage and BDSM play scenarios
Durable construction designed for vigorous thrusting intensity
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Strap-on dildos deliver powerful sensation, but handling them during play can feel awkward or unstable. This handle transforms any compatible dong into a tool you can grip, control, and thrust with confidence and precision.
The All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties is a practical grip attachment designed to give you command over any compatible strap-on dildo. Its ergonomic ABS plastic construction clips onto dongs with a Vac-U-Lock base or standard hole, turning an insertable toy into a hand-held tool. This simple addition eliminates fumbling and uncertainty—you get a secure, confident grip for deeper control during partnered or solo play.
Unlike holding a dildo by the harness or its base alone, this handle puts control directly in your palm. The phthalate-free ABS plastic is body-safe and durable enough for regular use in a variety of scenes. See the full BDSM Australia range of Strap On Dildos that work with this handle.
Attach the handle to your dildo's base or Vac-U-Lock connection point, ensuring it's fully seated and secure. Hold the handle firmly—one hand for guided control, or both hands for added stability and depth. Start slowly and let your partner signal comfort; communicate throughout. The handle lets you angle and pace thrusts with confidence, reducing fatigue and increasing precision.
Always use plenty of lubrication on the dildo before insertion, and reapply as needed. Slow, steady strokes allow both partners to adjust to sensation and rhythm. Explore the full range of Lubes and Essentials to find what works best for your bodies and play style. Check in with your partner regularly, and never hesitate to pause or stop if either of you feels discomfort.
Clean the handle and any attached dildo with warm water and mild soap after every session. Dry both thoroughly with a soft cloth before storage. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and extreme heat. Do not share this toy without thorough cleaning between users, and inspect regularly for signs of wear or damage.
Understanding the dynamics of strap-on play—communication, positioning, and pleasure—helps both partners get the most from this tool. Read more about technique and shared sensation in Shared Strap On Pleasure. Your confidence and comfort are the foundation of every scene.
Grip and control are non-negotiable in my practice. This handle transforms a dildo into an extension of my will—the weight shifts from the harness to my hands, where dominance lives. My submissive feels the intentionality in every stroke; there's no ambiguity, no passivity. The handle is precision.
Angle matters. With my fingers wrapped around this grip, depth becomes a statement, not an accident. Slow, deliberate penetration shows control; faster rhythm demonstrates command. My submissive responds to the authority in my movements—the handle amplifies that message through their body.
The phthalate-free ABS plastic is durable enough for repeated, firm use without concern for material breakdown. Between scenes, a quick wash keeps it ready for the next session. For impact play or extended bondage scenes, this handle's ergonomic design prevents hand fatigue, letting me maintain dominance for as long as the scene demands.
See this and similar tools in action across my 300+ training videos on the BDSM Australia channel.
| Feature | All In Strap On Dildo Handle | Harness-Only Method | Dildo Base Grip |
|---|---|---|---|
| Hand control | Full, ergonomic grip | Limited; hands stay on harness | Awkward; base not designed for gripping |
| Stability | Secure and stable | Depends on harness fit | Prone to slipping |
| Precision | High; direct hand positioning | Moderate; dependent on body movement | Low; difficult to angle consistently |
| Ease of use | Quick attach, immediate grip | Requires harness donning | No attachment; manual holding only |
| Fatigue | Minimal; handle absorbs strain | Moderate; full-body engagement needed | High; hand tires quickly from direct hold |
Secure grip and confident control are what separate fumbling from dominance. This handle gives you both the moment you attach it to your dildo. Shop at BDSM Australia and add the All In Strap On Dildo Handle to your collection—because every scene deserves a tool that listens to your hand and answers to your command. From First Time Buyers to Experienced Players.
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